Why is she doing this?

Question

ok so i have like this girl for a really long time, i am crazy about her, all she ever did was tease me, so i let go, she screwed with my mind for far to long...now i told her that im done, yet she calls me stuff like babe, hun, sweetheart, dear, etc...and she lays her head on my shoulder when we are together.. why is she doing this?

PS i am not a player ive never had gf, ive waited for her for 5 years. I still love her more than anything in the world yet everytime i start to make a move she shuts me down.

Answer 1

sounds to me like she is inlove with the idea that you love her, but she isnt prepsared to return the love or let you go find somebody else. some females love that idea that somebody wants them but they arnt prepared to return it until it is too late. cut her loose you are wasting your time with her. like the saying goes.. if you love something set it free if it comes back to you its yours.. if it dosn't it never was.

Answer 2

Honestly? Because before she knew she had you wrapped around her finger. Now that she realizes she can't have you she wants the attention again. People usually want what they can't have. You need to stop her advances now. If you show interest in her again you'll only end up where you started. My brother was in this same situation with a girl. Once he stopped all contact with her she immediately went on to her next victim (within a 2 week time frame).

Answer 3

Hey, I see she is quite a tease. Either she is playing hard to get or playing with you. My honest opinion man leave her. If she is acting like that then it really isn't going to go anywhere unless she changes and gives you a chance. Sounds like she wants to keep you eating in the palm of her hands and leave you there and now that she nows she doesn't have that well she's chasing after you. It up to you, its your decision however keep in mind that she might just keep teasing you.

Answer 4

to me it sounds like shes flirting with you because its a challenge to make you say oyu like her again.. girls are known forb eing teases and seductive.. its a fact .. thats why there so popular in the mdeia.. shes does it cuz she can and shes got you wrapped around her fingure and .. all girls use those words lol .. im a major fan of hun babe and sweetheart oh and sugar ! its a girl thing xo

Answer 5

Girls love using nice guys to make them feel good about themselves. Then date the bad boys. Girls will tell you thats not true but you'll get stuck holding the bag and having feelings for this chick. She'll have none for you b/c your "too nice".

Answer 6

she likes you but by the sounds off it not enough in the relationship way !!!
when u play it cool she wants what she feels she carnt have...
u are worth more sorry dude she might be a nice girl but her feelings/ relationship towards you are slightly selfish ...
let go cos she will hurt u you ...
you can be friends but she knows you want more so she uses that when she needs attention x

Answer 7

She's getting off on the control she has over you. Don't continue to allow her to have it. You sound decent. Prove it and move on. I know it's hard but she'll do nothing but break your heart.

Answer 8

so..this is difficult..i think u should get over this..situation!!it only causes pain 2u!!in my opinion she's used to your "affection"and when you try to take it away shes reacting..people like 2be loved..i dont think that shes in love with u..if she does she wont take the risk to lose u!!i hope that u'll find my answer helpful!!

Answer 9

you sound like an honest nice guy, you need to move on and find someone else because it doesn't sound like she is very serious.