I was a bad-boy. Well, not really THAT bad, but since I turned into a nice gentelmanly guy girls play me like a PS 3. I have heard "stop being so nice", "stop opening up". Blah, blah, blah. I can only be me but that doesnt seem to click. Have a house, close to my family, been told I have a funny personailty good looking. I and have a some money in the bank. Ok, girls...what is the deal. "Nice but not TOO nice". "Play like you dont care". "Hit em and quit em." I just dont get you...what is with the wanting the opposite thing?
2007-01-12 10:45:38 · 5 answers · asked by csiders30 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude your perfect!!!! i got no clue what those girls are thinking!!!! but you cant let them play you like that. if you open up then your a great guy, my guys dont even open up and tell me anything!!! it gets to be a REAL pain in the *** let me tell you. you keep on doing what your doing, a girl would be LUCKY to have you.
2007-01-12 10:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by airforce_brat_16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a happy medium. Sometimes if a guy is TOO nice to everyone he comes off as a whimp or gay or immature. But don't be mean either, no one likes a jerk.
2007-01-12 18:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i actually think that some girls do like nice boys. i mean i do too. ;) the thing is that every girl has their own likes and interests about their IDEAL guy. do not worry, you will find her. and you do not have to change yourself just to make some girls like you or begin to notice you.
2007-01-12 18:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by CHI U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we want men who are nice, but also have a spine, if you get what i mean- like we want a gentlemen, but we dont wanna walk all over his existence. we want him to have an opinion in what we do together, and also accept when its time for us to choose, you know? we want a good guy, but not a complete baby.
2007-01-12 18:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like a nice guy. dont change.
2007-01-12 18:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by jmprince01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋