I feel I caused my sweetheart friend of two years to be upset with me. I tried to phone him once at home he answered didn't say anything and hung up. I called his cell and it was off which he usually has it on, so I left a voice mail. I e-mailed him an apology and asking him if I upset him cause when I saw him last he talked with everyone else and when he was ready to leave, he just said bye and that was it. I saw it in his face. He was upset and it bothered me. I plan to call him tomorrow to talk to him. We're both over 30.
2007-01-12 10:41:56 · 30 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure what you did but it cant be that bad cause at least he said good bye to you the last time you saw him. I think its immature that he would hang up on you and not answer his phone. I definetely think that and e-mail apology is a good idea since you cannot get a hold of him. If your not sure what you did ask him. Maybe you made him jelous somehow? Well anyways I hope it works out. You both need to talk things over in the long run.
2007-01-12 10:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by XoXoGlitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An email apology is a start. Even better a hand written one and leave it on his door or car. (Or mail it) Let him know that you would like to talk it out with him that he means a lot to you. Let him know to contact you when he is ready that you dont want to push it. Communication is the biggest part of a relationship working out. My man and I can tell each other anything. I wouldnt call him tomorrow. Just send him a letter and let him come to you. It might take a few days for him to but hopefully he will if he wants it to work out.
Also, I suppose it matters on why he is upset with you. If it is a simple thing it should work out. If it is MAJOR it might or might not. I wish you luck.
2007-01-12 18:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the best policy.......emailing him is like throwing a paper plane with a little note on it at him.
or maybe you need to just let him cool off lol, the more you try to bother him and pester him the more mad he'll get. So just leave him and the situation alone for a few days to a week and let him get a break to think things over for a bit. When its time, he will call "YOU" because two years means alot obviusly and he cant be THAT mad....to end a two year relationship come ooon noow.
2007-01-12 18:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a start. If you don't get an answer, you can't force him to talk to you. I would hope that since both of you are adults, he will be able to sit down with you and be able to tell you what is troubling him, honestly and openly. I hope you can be open and listen to what is bothering him. Best wishes. I would ask him to sit down and talk with you, but if he doesn't, you may have to drop it, for now. If you already know, and you already apologized, you can't do anything else. He has heard you. Don't hound him. Let him come to you when he is ready. I will pray for you.
2007-01-12 18:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually emailing will work! but do not forget that you upset him and you should show that you are sorry for what you had done by what you are going to do! I mean, just an apology email or something is not enough and you should show your apology by your action. Maybe a gift for his birthday or inviting him out for dinner and two roses will help! be suucesful.
2007-01-12 19:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by Nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologizing and asking for forgiveness is best done face-to-face if at all possible, unless geography makes it not a first option. That way, facial expression and body language can really convey your sincerity in a way that e-mail or a letter cannot.
Best to you.
2007-01-12 18:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't talk to you then I would email him and follow up with a letter. Since you have called him and he refuses to answer, then just leave him alone. If he can't tell you what is wrong so you can get it straightened out then he doesn't deserve you. After you send him the messages leave the ball in his court.
2007-01-12 20:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by anita s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just give it a few days. Guys tend to get irritated if you chase them trying to apologize. Give it some time for him to cool off and for you to think of exactly what you want to say without getting emotional about it. Good luck hun!
2007-01-12 18:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by TTC Cycle#20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An e-mail is good just to get your feelings out there to him and then give them time to sink in...you dont want to keep "attacking" him about the situation. It might hurt for a bit but you want to give him his time to think about the situation. So if you send him a letter...handwritten seems more personable...give it time for him to digest your apology.
2007-01-12 18:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by nancy23nannan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do that was so bad to upset him? All you can do is give him some time to cool down. You've made every effort to apologize so now it's up to him.
2007-01-12 18:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋