There is this guy in my class at school,we'll call him Fox, who asked me to our winter dance. I don't want to go with him but I don't want to make things really awkward in class. Is there a way to say no without majorly hurting his feelings?
2007-01-12 10:27:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol. im sure youre not the first and you probably wont be the last. youre better off telling him what is really is now. you would hate for him to get the wrong idea by you going to the dance with him. doesnt matter whether or not you tell him youre going as friends. chances are he'll swear youre his girl. what would be more akward in class, turning him down or going with him and having this weird swimfan crush going on. not literally of course...i hope. good luck to ya!!
2007-01-12 10:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by king.8307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a crappy situation..and that is way cool of you to consider his feeling..Just tell him"sorry I would go with you to the dance, but i already have someone else in mind" or something like that..you don't want to tell him that you already have a date because if he finds out that you dont, it would hurt worse. Don't worry. he will find someone else to go with..or he will eventually get over it. Good Luck
2007-01-12 10:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's always tough...I would kindly tell him that you are not able to go with him because you have a prior obligation/someone already asked you to the dance. This way he won't be so hurt-he won't take it personally
2007-01-12 10:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by BUTTERCUP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Look, about the dance, I already promised 'jonny' that I'd go with him. Really sorry but I can't let him down this time. Hope you understand. You're sweet for asking though. "
2007-01-12 10:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him "sorry, I'm not interested". It'll hurt him a lot less than if you stand him up. I've been stood up a few times and that hurts the most!!
2007-01-12 10:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by spackler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. This might hurt his feelings, but it is better than all of the other alternatives (excuses, lies, etc.)
2007-01-12 10:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you like someone else eh?
Tell him you have been asked by so & so already and you are sorry.
2007-01-12 10:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you prefer women, but if you were straight you would say yes.
2007-01-12 10:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by orangecross666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno i been shut down my whole life hundreds of times and it hurt every time......that sux u gotta turn him down...poor guy.
2007-01-12 10:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋