I have a guy who is my best friend, we do everything together. I dont have a boyfriend and he doesnt have a girlfriend but he says we should just be friends. But everytime we are with eachother we kiss, and flirt, etc. Should i stop with the relationship stuff or try to push it? I really want to stay friends with this guy too.
2007-01-12 10:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by Halizzle1010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once you cross the line with this guy there's no turning back. Everything will be weird from then on and you could end up regretting things said/done and lose a good friend in the process.
How much do you value this friendship? Is it worth risking it all? Can you really see a future with this guy? If the answer is no, then stop all the romantic stuff, stick your guns and just be/act like friends.
2007-01-12 10:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like your best friends .. with benifits.. if you really like him, find out if he feels the same may and try to make something of the relationship because the best relationships come from being great friends. Make sure your not just someone to kiss and flirt with because he can. If nothing becomes of it and your truely best friends.. then you should still be friends after all this. Byee xox Missy
2007-01-12 18:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Missy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my best friend are the same way, take my advice and keep it how it is, you'll just do what you'll do when you'll do it and still be able to see other people thats the best kind of realtionship or if you really want him you should get another guy in your life and dat ehim and if the best bud really wants you he will rwalize that he has to snatch you up before someone else does :)
2007-01-12 18:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off. It sounds as if he is giving you two different messages. I would definitely not kiss or mess around with him anymore or you will end up hurt. When he finds someone who he wants to be with he will look at you crazy when you show feelings for him.
2007-01-12 18:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he feel about the situation? he may not want to change things. The two of you should talk about your feelings for each other before going any further. You could end up getting hurt.
2007-01-12 18:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, and he likes you back... why wouldn't you want to go out with him. i mean it seems like both of you have a thing for the other, and since you guys are best friends it was kind of meant to be :]
2007-01-12 18:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm.. sounds like you guys are loving a little. try to talk about a relationship with him. like ask, "do you see us together in the future?"
2007-01-13 11:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will this is the kind of thing that some people do like about some one but when you fine a person that you like and things that you like about him you can never live him
2007-01-12 18:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by shanalla m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go all the way with him
2007-01-12 18:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by obnoxioustroll5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him get his priorities strait.......i mean hes trying for the friends with benefit shyt...............
if u like him ask him out for real if he says no then no qith the friends with benefit shyt
2007-01-12 18:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Make Love Not War! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋