first off... i am mormon.... so my values kinda circle around that...
I'm chinese... i DON'T have an accent... only chinese by blood
I am 14...
so... if you're ok with all that so far... keep reading
I am open to new things and comfortable with the familiar
I like all kinds of music, though i don't really like rap...
I'm not judgemental
I read (yes actual novels... though i don't think you can call me a bookworm)
i'm not shallow, but i'm not too deep...
i like adventure, but i also like calmness... like I have said... i'm open.
umm... yeah... you can ask questions too... i'll update this question...
2007-01-12 10:21:33 · 20 answers · asked by Can't wait for Saturday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not looking for a guy online...
I'm just asking if I have qualities that would attract someone. I know i'm young, but I see so many couples around me and I guess... i just had to ask...
2007-01-12 10:34:22 · update #1
You are still a very young lady and time will bring out so much more of who you are. You have many great qualities to start with, so create some short term goals in life. As you meet each goal, you will learn more about yourself and the people that surround you. Examine people and determine what you like and definitely what you don’t like in a guy. Always fall back on this mental list you create.
All of these things will help to mold you as a person and you will become very happy with whom you are. When this happens, you’ll have the best guys chasing you like there is no tomorrow.
If you are cautious and always use your mind when making decisions, I’m certain you will do fine in life.
Best of luck.
2007-01-12 10:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by last_of_the_romantic_men 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, some one will love you very much one day but don't rush it. You have plenty of time for love.
There is nothing wrong with you, so if you are thinking that there is just knock it off. Girls your age are all over themselves with criticism, thinking they don't have what it takes to get a bf, but I'm telling you that there will be guys by the tons when the time is right.
Hang onto your values. Don't run into things too soon. I don't know what it means to be Mormon but YOU do, so don't stray from what is important to you no matter what you see on TV, what you read or what your friends are doing. A girl with self-respect is always desirable. Keep yours.
Concentrate on school, your goals and your dreams. When you're ready and it's time, the right guy will come along. Promise. Till then make your life a good one. A relationship, if it is to be healthy, is made up of two whole people. Make sure you are one of them.
2007-01-12 10:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately high school dating sucks, especially for people like yourself who are intellectual (you read SOME books, which is more than many high school kids!) and religious. I know it can be lonely sometimes, but I think you should not worry about dating too much until late high school or college. A lot of guys find Asian girls attractive for all the wrong reasons, but when you're dealing with guys who are a little more mature, you might be better able to find a guy who appreciates you for what's on the inside.
That was my approach, because it works the same way for guys. High school dating was pretty miserable, I never found a soul mate, but in college I met really smart, cool girls who found smart Asian guys (like me!) attractive, and I wound up marrying one of them. So don't feel like you have to settle for a guy who just "likes" you--hold out for a really quality guy who will respect you for everything you are!
BTW, I'm Mormon too. Good luck, sister! :)
2007-01-14 17:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by publicblast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure alot of people will like you and do like you. But the MOST important thing is how you feel about yourself!! Thats what counts!!
Just be yourself and dont try to be someone your not! You sound like a really great person and there is nothing wrong with being chinese or any other race. You need to be proud of your heritage and who you are!!
2007-01-12 10:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am a woman so i wouldnt like you and i am older but i wanted to tell you that any guy would be lucky to have you but your only 14 and you dont need to rush i was raised mormon as well so i understand your morals and values good luck:)
2007-01-12 10:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seems to be a nice sweet person, down to earth and honest. Lots of folks will kill for you.
One thing though, you are too young to put so much emphasis on this, you should put it on your studies.
2007-01-12 10:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a guy, i'd probably like you...
As a friend... well you sound like a good friend. Don't worry too much about finding someone now. You will. And they'll find you.
2007-01-12 11:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 14 and Mormon. I'm gonna go with a big NO.
2007-01-12 10:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol for a friends point of veiw it seems like you need to stop worrying and just be yourself you want someone to like you for who you are not who they want you to be and trust me your 14 dont worry you have a whole liffetime to stress over this girl just have fun and good luck everything will be fine!!!
2007-01-12 10:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u asking if a guy would like u or just if ppl like a girl like u???
if it's just ppl...then..
i would love a girl like u!!! (like, as friends..)
i have a lot of things in common with u^^
o, btw, don't look down upon urself
u gotta love who u are cuz i think ur perfect!xD
2007-01-12 10:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Amanista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋