Mind you, they've had sex and he likes her too. He wants to take it slow (because he recently had his heart broken and so has she) but she can't contain her feelings (Not the sexual one's). It's easier for her to let go of the hurt than he is.
2007-01-12 09:52:39 · 11 answers · asked by Ladyemme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop having sex with him.
If the man stops seeing her becuase he is not getting any sex, then we know that the woman was being used just for sex, and she needs to move on. Nothing was lost.
2007-01-12 09:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to be brutal but if dude can open up enough to have sex with u he could also have a relationship with u...understand he is hurt and be his friend all u want but dont let him take advantage of u in the process. Taking it slow needs to also include the sex part of it as well dear. He may very well like u but had his heart broken but if u guys are just friends and u want more then prove it cause you're sending mixed msgs...it sounds like you're ok to settle with whatever he gives u
2007-01-12 09:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by JAY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK
that maybe they shouldn't have slept together because, of his broken heart I dont see how a man is willing to sleep with a girl than be with her after he had just got out of a major relationship, he needs time to heal and if that female want to be with him that much she has to wait or if he really wants her he would try to do lil things to let her know I haven't forgot about you, but honestly they did a kind of wrong thing by sleeping with one another cause that was just to see if that would hep him get over his broken heart or to keep her hanging on untill he heals.. but thats my opinion
2007-01-12 10:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why, but i think that this is your case.
I think you have to follow your heart, but use your head too. What im trying to say is this:
Be sure that what you feel is not a great sexual experience, if you arent so sure, i suggest to take your time and think about it.
If he needs time, dont let yor heart make yourself doing things that your are not supposed to do
After all of this, if you still think that "he is the one", go for him
2007-01-12 10:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by mikiburstein 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that crazy it's usually the guy after the girl. I'm not sure this guy really likes your friend as much as she does. It's better to wait because then you know what kind of guy your dealing with.
2007-01-12 09:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits. Nice! Just be ***** buddies. Plenty of sex without having to pay her bills. That sounds better then marriage.
2007-01-12 09:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by One Bad Mama Jama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have to move at a speed they both agree on will feel the most comfortable with. they should be happy that they know they have feelings for each other and the other person knows it.
2007-01-12 09:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by CHI U 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont believe it ever works to just be friends.
2007-01-12 09:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard decision, they'll probably end up together anyway...
2007-01-12 09:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by tysexy25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be just friends it will never work
2007-01-12 09:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by pa625 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋