well, im finally learning to lose my grip on hopes we can still be together...we just didnt connect so it was better off it ended..in the past 3 months i learned skating, yoga and met new people...ive tried not to have contact with her at all...are there anymore suggestions to completely get her off my mind...i wish i could be friends with her but im not yet ready, so i hope not to see her in a long while..sometimes the feeling comes again and i try to fend it off...
what did you do to move on completely? id be really grateful to learn from you guys...
2007-01-12 09:47:37 · 11 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Letting go is the hardest part of our life we could help but still it will be your choice.Let me see.....think of the things she is not capable with, think of the bad things or have a vacation. You should think that you could have someone better than her.You must love her so much but are sure that she loves you that much also.Try to figure out the things that you two didn't work out sooner or later you will forget her. Find someone new or make yourself busy that's why your mind will be occupied with some thing which can boost your expertise in work.God bless.You can make it....
2007-01-12 10:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Paxxiegrett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...the age old question. Sadly, the only thing that helps you move on is time. Personally, I try to think of all the crappy things my ex did or what I hated about him when those feelings of wanting him back creep up. I also invision him as the fat piece of crap he's probably become and dream that he's miserable without me (he is! lol). I wish there was a better answer but time really is all there is. You're doing a really great job though! You could be wallowing and you're not. Good for you and keep it up!
2007-01-12 17:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think ur free do what makes u happy u can keep thinking back to the past but it wont help at all u need to move foward these feelings will keep coming back until u move foward ur life has changed for the better just do what makes u fell happy i was stuck in a relationship i didnt want was moaning for 5 months turning very bitter then i started going to a running track and met someone new nd i dont think about the last person anymore feel so much better so much happier she makes me feel so good its to hard to explain but move forward not back good luck it aint easy but dont stop tryin the future can only get better
2007-01-12 18:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cried and I prayed a lot. I did things that made me happy and hung out with friends a lot. It's the only way to get that person off your mind.
2007-01-12 17:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not sound like there is a lot of thought in this answer but there is...
Just keep doing what you have to do.
If you miss her, than don't deny it. When you find another girl attractive, go for it. There's really nothing to "do".
2007-01-12 17:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Teaim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and realize that there is someone who is much better for you out there, and you will need to be completely free in mind, body and soul if you are to be ready when she shows up.
2007-01-12 17:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by â?¥2Lipsâ?¥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you ever figure out how to get your mind off of it, will you fill me in? I'm going through the same thing.
2007-01-12 17:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like I always say, get back up on the horse.
Yahoo should devote an entire website to this issue.
2007-01-12 17:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your doing everything right keep on doing what your doing you will find that your good days are out numbering your bad days....,, maybe counseling would help
2007-01-12 17:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had Vinny go by and threaten to kill her kitty if she didn't move out of town!
2007-01-12 17:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋