i feel so depressed cause im not able to see my bf tommow and i have to wait 2 weeks,my bf lives over 1 hour away and he has got A level exam revsion to do.i dont feel like going to sleep cause i just feel so depressed.im going out with my friend for dinner tommow night and i know i wills till feel depressed.i dunno what todo.
2007-01-12 09:21:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Just think of all those who's loved ones are fighting wars, they are in constant danger! Stop whingeing and get on with life. Use the phone, e mail, and heres a novel idea...write him a letter!;
2007-01-12 09:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Ok, Not to be mean but get over it. Life will go on if you dont see your bf for a night or a week or even a month. I went through 9 months of pregnancy and 72 hours of labor with my first child at the age of 18 without my husband. We go married after he got out of bootcamp when i was about 4 months pregnant then between training for 4 months and leaving for Germany which where we are stationed now he wasnt there for any of it. Secondly we have been married for 3 yrs know. He has been in training for atleast 8 months of those three years and he was in Iraq for another year of it so out of three years i have spent alot of days without him . Go out with your friends and have fun you dont need him stuck up your *** everyday.
2007-01-13 09:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by jibby_03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not depression ------
It is called
!!!!!!!! LOVE !!!!!!!
" Even an hour is, too long to be apart "
Write to him and tell him how much you love him ,
( though I am sure he already knows that !!)
Tell him of all the small things going on at home ,
Time will soon pass, and he will be back ! .
I understand how awful it feels to be apart
But work , collage etc are also important ..
it will be so wonderful, when you are together .
But thankfully ,you do not have clinical depression ,
which is a terrible illness .
>^,,^<
2007-01-12 09:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee and I have been together over 4 years and are getting our own place soon. We have never been able to see each other as much as we've wanted to, but we kept in touch over the phone and planned our days off work to see each other. We always enjoy each others company although we miss each other a lot. She lives in a small town quite far from where I live but we've made it work because we love each other very much. Dont worry about it, the exams wont last forever. Things will only get better.
2007-01-12 09:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are suffering depression because you can't see your boyfriend, I think you are probably upset and that's understandable if you miss him. Be careful not to be too clingy, it could your boyfriend off big time! It would be much better if you could understand his needs as well, after all swatting for exams is a pretty reasonable excuse. So maybe you could let him know that you understand his need to revise and not have a girlfrind but also let him know that you are there for him when he wants to see you again.
2007-01-12 09:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by makehaysunshine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's the way it fairly works i'm afraid. i'm in an rather similar difficulty myself. i'm at present in my very last year of uni at Teesside uni, and my Boyfriend lives in a village close to York and he's operating his own corporation. between us we've little or no time to be jointly, he works all week and that i'm at uni in the course of the week and artwork on the weekend. i recognize the way you sense about getting depressed, it does an same to me. I finally end up curled up in mattress crying. the way we manage no longer being togther is to communicate on the information superhighway, that way we are able to both stil get our artwork achieved. it would no longer be only excellent for you, yet you are able to attempt ringing him once you get into mattress, We do this and only the sound of his voice helps me loosen up. only keep reminding your self that he's doing those A tiers to larger constructive his coaching and at last get a good pastime. And his checks will be over quickly. organize to spend an afternoon with him after his exam, type of like a reward for operating puzzling to revise for his exam. wish it helps
2016-10-30 22:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to find something to do for a couple of weeks. Go out with friends. Two weeks will fly by and you'll see him in no time!
2007-01-13 07:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First things first. You need to learn that you can only find true happiness when you learn to be happy with yourself. To need someone else so bad that you can't sleep and are seriously depressed after only two weeks is horrible. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and find something constructive to do to occupy your mind until you are able to see your bf again. Good luck!
2007-01-12 09:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
o my god.... i seriously doubt your actually depressed, maybe a little disappointed or somthing... i think the phrase 'i'm depressed...' is way over used. and if you actually dpressed, it probably isnt because you wont be able to see your bf tomorrow... depression is serious... my mother is manic depressive and for the past few years ive suffered horrible depressions... however i didnt even get depressed when i knew id never get to see my bf again because of our few thousand mile move, i just felt really blue for a while, made new friends, kept in touch with him and blah blah blah. you'll get over it, dont worry.
2007-01-12 09:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sabastiana 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Get a grip g/f.. i have been there countless of times. Just do your thing and do your thing. It doesnt mean the end of the world. Damn .. Take a chill pill. At least the poor guy isnt in Iraq. Count your blessings. Go out take your mind off of him and the time will pass.
2007-01-12 09:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋