Which guy should I put the moves on??

Question

There are three guys I'm interested in, which one should I put the moves on.

1) The guy a year younger than me, we're sort of friends. He finds me funny, I find him cool.(he's also very cute)

2) The guy I met at a party who has a super busy life. We only hung out once after the party(which was in october) and that was in a group. We talk on msn regularily but that is about it. He is really busy with school and work.

3) There's a guy who I think is interested in me. We hang out at school and he seems to cater to me like a girlfriend(just how he is so sweet to me) The only thing is, I can't see him in a boyfriend way. I like him and who he is, but there is no lust.

If you guys could help, that would be awesome!

Answer 1

Hit on the first guy! Keep on talking to the second guy though. Don't mention guy #1 to guy #2 and vise versa. I've talked to about 7 guys at once (keeping my options open). Once I find one I like, I keep him, but keep the other ones hanging just in case my first choice doesn't work out. Thing is, I never let the other guys see me. I only talk to them on the phone and make some BS escuse for why I can't hang out. It keeps them intrigued so I've always got them wrapped around my pinky. It's great stuff but you have to know what you're doing and you have to know how to work at it. Being a player is an art hun. Good luck.

Answer 2

Go for the first guy. The beginning of a relationship is being friends first. If you feel the attraction and chemistry between you guys go for him.

Don't pick guy number 2 because he obviously won't have anytime for you as a girlfriend.

I wouldn't pick guy number 3 because you don't have any attraction towards him. You could try to go on a date with him to see how it goes but if you still feel the friend vibe then forget about going any further. You don't want to hurt him down the road. Why is it that we never go for the nice guys?

Answer 3

i would go for guy 1 because guy 2 is busy and u hung out once! guy 3 u seem disinterested and like u say no lust, put the moves on guy 1. Age makes no difference to relationships (unless you happen to be a 79 year old millionaire dude with a 18 year old blonde following you!) Hope this helps.

Answer 4

I think you should go for guy #3. I like a girl who was sweet to me, but I didn't feel any lust for and all I saw her was as a friend. Well things change now I do feel a thing for her. Just see if you get the samething.

Answer 5

I would say guy #3.
maybe if you guys get into a relationship, the lust will start to come.

personally, I dont like guys dating older girls, and
a busy guy that you met once at a party [not even alone]
doesnt sound too promising.

Answer 6

Number one sounds like the best bet. You two enjoy hanging out with eachother, that really matters! Two seems too busy and you can't really help it if you don't feel it for Three.

Answer 7

First guy
he sounds cool.
The second . he is too busy .
The third. you don't think he is boy friend type
Forget about the lust . that isn't a way or reason to like or find a guy attractive.
go for the 1st guy. he is cool and cares about you.

Answer 8

you should definitely go with number 3 or 1 not number 2. but knowing you! you are going to pick number 2 for the lust! ha ha

Answer 9

I'd say guy number 3. But if guy number 2 is willing to work on a relationship with you then go for it.

Answer 10

Hello =)

The only one who seems to be of any use would be #1...

#2 will always be too busy, and you'll feel the lack of attention..

#3....well.....without sexual attraction....what's the point??

Namaste,

--Tom