help! I'm only 14, but I know I'M a lez! well I feel the same for boys and girls, I like both, should I tell my mom?
2007-01-12 09:11:16 · 25 answers · asked by coolgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with other posters about you possibly being bi sexual.The only reason I qualify this answer with "possibly" is due to your age and probably lack of experience.Right now it may be curiosity .I think you should have a talk with your mother about relationships and emotions and during that time you can mention your concerns about sexual orientation. If you feel embarassed to talk to your mother about this their are kids hot lines where you can talk to someone who will talk to you in confidence and in a nonjudgemental way.
2007-01-15 04:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm,you're bi,or bi-curious....maybe it's just a period of your life when you wanna try things...and the idea of being with girls thrills you.believe me,i went through a phase like that.you haven't experimented enough to realize what you're really after.that happens way later.you're only 14 and believe,i know what i'm saying. even so,i'm not sayin i'm lez,i'm not.i love men,but got an admiration for women too....who doesn't love women? we're such gorgeous creatures! :)
2007-01-12 17:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bluntness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. Your body is going through a lot. I would wait for just a bit and see if things change for you. If not, then you can tell your Mom, but if she is not open minded it may not be a very pleasant situation. I wish the best.
2007-01-12 17:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably be more clear in your feelings before you tell anyone. You said you like both girls and boys so that's not being a lesbian. If you think you lean more towards liking girls, tell your mom. She might not accept it right away but she's your mom and she'll always love you.
2007-01-12 17:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ot out in the open now and get it over with. And it sounds like your bi and not a lez
2007-01-12 17:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are awfully young to be experiencing sexual encounters of any sort. Whether you are bi, les, or straight is irrelevent at this point. You are way too young to be having any sexual intercourse of any kind. I do believe it will be easier if you are honest with your mother- you will feel better if you feel open and as if you are not hiding a secret all the time. She will be thankful that you are able to confide in her and feel sfe enough to come to her for advice and support. However, i hope that you will wait before you continue to dabble in the physical aspects of your sexuality. Be safe, smart, and good luck.
2007-01-12 17:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you always liked girls since you were little? the same thing happend to me. my mom found a letter i wrote to this girl messed around with and just told my mom that i couldn't help the way i felt. you should always tell your mom things like that so that later on down the road,it isn't a suprise. just get it off of your chest as soon as possible
2007-01-12 17:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by angi w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you may grow outof liking 1 soon and you shouldnt scare her right now by telling her you like both. Weigh it out and see how you feel in a year or 2.
2007-01-12 17:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to ease your way into telling her don't just blurt it out out of no where. Try to build a trusting relationship with your Mom. Trust me that will definitely help you out in the future.
2007-01-12 17:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just confused. don't tell your mom cause that would mean cementing your identity to what you think you are right now. just wait till you are old enough, say four years. by that time, hopefully you have a clue of what you really want.
2007-01-12 17:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by james b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋