This girl had a huge crush om me last year, but now I don't think she likes me as much, but now I sort of have this crush on her. Theres somethings making it very difficult to tell her how I feel.
1) I;m VERY quiet, by far the quietest person at my school, and I attend the largest school in the city.
2) She's very attractive, so she always has boys surrounding her, and trying to get with her
3) She is Bi, she does like girls.
So what can I do to get her to like me again!?
2007-01-12 08:41:16 · 15 answers · asked by West Jefferson Alum 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you pointed out that you're different from everyone else. use this to your advantage, you don't have to be loud or around her all the time to make her notice you, especially because that's not you. show her you have something to offer, your personality, that those other guys hitting on her can't. pay attention to her, pretend it's just you and her when you're talking, and actually listen to what she says. don't be too needy, or hang around her. say things that will make her think. pay attention to the little things she likes, maybe something she's good at but doesn't brag about. something those other guys will overlook as they're drooling over her. then give her a small gift, or say something to let her know that you think what she's awesome at that thing, or to show that you really think she's special. It might take a while, but she'll realize that after those other guys have left her and hurt her, that you were always there being nice to her. and you said she liked you before, so don't be fake. she obviosly finds something about you attractive and she'll notice that again if you let her. sorry for the short novel I wrote, hope it will help. and good like, you sound like a nice guy, don't let yourself get hurt, keep in mind that there are other girls out there and if she doesn't treat you nice, someone will.
2007-01-12 08:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have let your time expire with her, you don't have any more time to waste if you want her just go for it. She did like you at one point so you have a little advantage. Act now! It always help people like you if you just right a little note telling her to call you and leave your number. When she has a moment alone just walk up to her and hand it to her. Good luck.
2007-01-12 08:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revert to what you were doing originally. Heres the problem, most girls only want what they can't have (wait, us guys are like that too, damn, that explains why I like llamas!!). If she knows she can have you, she won't want you, so disappear and make yourself scarce. When you are around her, put on an aire of indifference..in no time she will fall madly in love with you and will be dropping her panties faster than groupies backstage at a kid rock concert!
2007-01-12 08:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a romantic poem signed by you, and put some of her favorite flowers and candies in it too. That is bound to get her attention. Then, if she asks about it say, "I just like you, and needed you to notice me. But now that you have.... would you go out with me?" That takes courage man, courage, but she'll respect you and probably say yes, if you really are the good guy you say you are.
2007-01-12 08:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Froggy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn up the charm bro!
no more mr.nice guy act like your the man and hang around a lot of girls in front of her to get her thinking about you. Then maybe she'll go to you. But if not flirt with her a little but give her space you know.
2007-01-12 08:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I kinda know how you feel...but what I really think you should do is act like she isn't around...girls like it when guys play hardball (Trust me..I am a female..and i like it when guys play hard ball...not to sound stupid or any thing) and another suggestion would be to try to have a nice conversation....do NOT chicken out...or you will seriously make a big fool of yourself
2007-01-12 08:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Davey Havok Is so Hot!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How cute is she?
hang out with me and I'll do the leg work for you...
Just kidding.
Just approach her when the other guys are not around and ask her if she would like to catch a movie sometime.
2007-01-12 08:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by kd s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on a chicken suit, And run around mooing, That should get her to notice you o.O And if not,..Then just try and swallow your courage and go up and talk to her..I know it's hard, I too am shy..But it's not impossible! So i'd say try that =0..Good luck!
2007-01-12 08:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will basically say this maximum adult males,maximum adult males which skill basically about all adult males have not something else on their recommendations yet females thats coming from a guy u say females flirt first yet females way of questioning is compared to adult males some females would nicely be questioning might want to this be the only nicely the adult males is questioning i ask your self how she is in mattress thats basically the fact and no im not gay im basically being genuine
2016-12-02 04:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by santella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too late....you had your chance and you blew it. if this chick is as desirable as you say; then you are nothing but an after thought. but if you really want to compete for her affection, send her cute notes and flowers and all of that mushy stuff. but methinks that you need to let her go.
2007-01-12 08:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋