Ok, I met this girl in another country and had a couple of visit and one date. That date we kissed and seem to get along. When I came back we had a short distance semi relationship in the beginning. THen the spark started to slow. I know that she recently broke up with her EX and told me she still misses him and that shes not ready for a relationship. She say she needs time and prefers to hang out with her "friends. I never asked her directly about us because we have no real relations except for a date. But we clicked afterwards and kept in touch. I will be moving there soon BTW By then it wont be long distance anymore. Girls, what should I do, should i pursue her or am i wasting my time? is she not interested anymore, does she really need time? i like her but im afraid.
2007-01-12 08:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really like her then wait for her because she never said she wasn't interested just that she wasn't ready. that makes perfect sense since she just broke up with her boyfriend she needs some time before she can start dating again. u should just start as friends and try to help her get through all this and she'll definetly go out with you if u take it slow and wait for her.
2007-01-12 08:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. From what it sounds like, this girl is not ready for another relationship yet. Depending on how serious her previous relationship was, she probably needs more time to get over her ex and move on. Since you say you get along and have kept in touch, there might be potential for something more in the future (if you allow things to happen naturally and don't press the issue too much). However, are you moving there because of her? If so, you might want to ask her exactly where things stand before you do so. Good luck with your decision!
2007-01-12 16:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by chickadee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as she said, she needs time to get over her ex and not be in a relationship for awhile. Wait until you move to her country, and then ask her out again. She may be more ready for a new relationship then. If she says no, she's no longer interested, well then, at least you tried.
2007-01-12 16:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say as long as you are not moving there for her.. just let her know that you are moving there... then let her contact you, if she is interested she can make the move.. but if she needs time.. then give her all the time she needs.. just move on with your life.. don't sit around and wait for her... cause if you do then she will know and probably think that you are being desperate or something like that
2007-01-12 16:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by charma694u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not interested anymore, you'll find out soon enough.
2007-01-12 17:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting time, move on
2007-01-12 16:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋