My relationship is over....it's over and I feel it. And I don't know what to do. Neither one of us has said godbye yet...but I can't take this anymore...I'm tired of being hurt by him...but it hurts worse to be without him. I don't know what to do...should I just cut him and deal with it...or should I continue to fight for this relationship.... I inlove with him and I can't help it, but he only loves me and thats not enough...
2007-01-12 08:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you need to end the relationship. It's going to be hard, and it's going to hurt, but it's better than being in a one-sided relationship. It's not fair to you to keep holding on to something, especially when you already know it is over.
Break it off, give yourself some time to get over it and heal, and move on, and whatever you do, DO NOT let yourself try to get back with him just because you miss the good times you had. You will only end up hurting yourself even more.
There are plenty of fish in the sea... even ones who will love you as much as you love them.
Good luck!
2007-01-12 08:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by violetmal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you are saying is that you are IN LOVE with him but he only LOVES you and isn't in love with you? Ok If thats what you are saying then there is no point in you trying. If he doesnt feel the same way you do chances are it won't matter how many times you try it will just not work. When someones loves you but isnt in love it usually means that they care about you deeply but not enough to stay with you so just dont hurt yourself more and let him go. My cousin was in a relationship like that but it was the other way around. She would take advantage of knowing that her ex was in love and would do whatever with him that she wanted. I'm pretty sure you dont want that. I know it hurts but you will survive it. If its meant to be you will know it but if you dont think you should try again its for a reason.
2007-01-12 16:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking questions only you can answer.
If you do decide to breakup, it will hurt worse, but it may be for the best (I can't say).
I went through a breakup about a year ago and it's been brutal. Worse because I always run into them at the dojo. (Never date among a group you attend frequently!)
I am still very much in love with them, but just couldn't take the emotional abuse and neglect anymore. It's the reason I never considered going back to them.
2007-01-12 16:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that you are not in "LOVE". Love ain't never gonna hurt. It's suppose tohurt so good. What you're feelin' is being betrayed. You sound too sweet to let some Clown do you wrong. Act as Sweet as you sound. You deserve better.
2007-01-12 16:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would deff. say leave him. If you want love in return for your own, you are probablly not going to get it from him. Even though you'll be hurt for a while, one day you'll find a better man and be so happy you didnt hang on to that relationship
2007-01-12 16:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there, and yes it does hurt alot but over time it gets better and then u can b with someone that treats u good.
2007-01-12 16:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love..
Move on..
Find someone new to love..
2007-01-12 16:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋