How do I choose?

Question

I've been dating this great guy for 4 months and he's great and all but i'm no totally happy. i love him alot but i think that he loves me more than i love him and i feel bad. it's our senior year in high school and everyone is thinking that we'll be together for a while and i really don't want to be because i liked being single. and i found out that one of my guy friends thinks my b/f is a bad person and i could do so much better. what do i do?

Answer 1

I hope this helps in your decision making. A friend of mine told me that he dates someone for 6 months. This should allow enough time for someone to know if a relationship can develop or not. You see their mood swings and get to know them all around. If there are no 'sparks' then he bows out and his friendship continues. Why ruin a friendship when a relationship doesn't work out is his theory. It's worked for me and I've got lot's of male friends. If you had a best friend with the same situation your up against, what kind of info would you give her? Your advise is the best cause no one knows you better than yourself. Good Luck honey!

Answer 2

Sorry but if your thinking you can do better, it is too late. The best thing is to be honest for both you and him. Your young and have a lot of pressure to be involved with someone right now. I may have got the hint that you like this other guy friend or that he likes you due to the fact that he is the one that made you realize that you could do better. Be honest to you and get through school there is so much more to life.

Good luck

Answer 3

If you don't want to be with him, break up with him. It's simple as that. And that one of your guy friends that thinks your boyfriend is a bad person, it's probably because he likes you and wants to be with you. If you're not totally happy, there is no reason in sticking around, you're a senior in high school, go have fun.