I have been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks. Last night I told him I was going out to a bar we hung up the phone and then he sends me a text messaging saying "you go out too much for me and I dont really like that". So basically he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. I barely know him, am I supposed to stop going out to be able to find a good guy. He barely knows me and when I find a guy I stop going out as much but what else am I suppose to do? Im 21 and single and I cant sit in the house all day. I even tried to tell him that I am different when I have a b/f, I'd rather spend my time w/them. Why cant he give someone a chance just because he thinks they go out to much but doesnt even know me that well.
Let me just add that I am not that worried about the situation just curious as to what other people think.
I will definatley move on. (like i said I barely know him)
2007-01-12 07:43:27 · 8 answers · asked by Tink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only go out on some thursdays, I bartend everyother Friday so that leaves me with everyother Friday and Saturdays to go out...I go to little bars sometimes on the weekdays but only to get out of the house.
2007-01-12 07:45:01 · update #1
Don't let people get in the way of things you want to do. You're young and have time to find someone who enjoys going out to bars with you! Have fun!
2007-01-12 07:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dana W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont go out too much. if he cant handle your job and your social life then hes not right for you. you need a guy that can go out with you or at least is ok with your life. the guys whack.
2007-01-12 15:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste anymore time on this loser...go out and get your groove on!!! There are so many more fish in the sea!
2007-01-12 15:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes trying to control the relationship, which is dumb at this time since it is early.
2007-01-12 15:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was very pety....he wasn't worth the effort anyway.
2007-01-12 15:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... he is probably just jealous that u do go out and have a great time(probably cause he cant)
2007-01-12 15:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by angel of darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only go out on thurs.... and fri.... and sat.... and sometimes on weekdays. you do go out alot. so what. have fun while you can.
2007-01-12 15:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop this control freak.
2007-01-12 15:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋