I think we're out of our infatuation stage, and the "lovey dovey" stuff is fading. We used to be more mushy and touchy feely, but its slacking off. I do know that he's stressed in other areas of his life, so that may be occupying his mind more than usual, so I'm trying to not take it personally. I'm a pretty needy person and I know having to get constant reassurance can get bothersome to him. I'm really big on affection and I'm really feeling the void in that area of our relationship. For the record, I havent shown much toward him either, since its usually a give and take thing with us, but I need to try harder to initiate being affectionate. Any ideas? I want to ask him why it's slacking off, or if he's even noticed it. How do ask him to be more affectionate without sounding too needy and accusatory?
2007-01-12 07:35:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say, "Remember when we use to........?" "Well, I miss it. I would love to be able to do that again and more often, do you?"
2007-01-12 07:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through something very similar. I try to just give him his space. I know he has a lot on his plate and he will come around eventually. A solution? Surprise him with a romantic dinner or a day of just the two of you. You'll work it out if it was meant to be.
2007-01-12 07:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by ytrewq112 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you would like to try new thing that has to do withhaveing SEX
2007-01-12 07:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by rndbutterbaugh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need more affection
2007-01-12 07:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal Blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER tell your significant other to be more affection. It's not natural MOVE ON. Really.
2007-01-12 07:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just talk with him
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2007-01-12 07:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋