i am a beautiful person.. in and out, but find that i've always had trouble with women... for example.. when i was young my aunt despised me... she told me so many unkind things that have stayed with me today! my mother in law hated me... told lies behind my back and laughed in my face. she literally broke my hubby and i up.... my school teachers were discouraging towards my goals, the girls at school hardly ever talked to me, the *** manager at my workplace would pick on me for no reason, another girlfriend spread rumors about me being pregnant when she knew it wasn't true and one of them always says my hair doesn't look right and i should let her do my make up when i don't need it... another girl stopped talking to me because i wouldn't let her live with me knowing that was not my house.. and many more. i only have a few girlfriends.. i am a kind person, so why do women act this way towards me? help, please?
2007-01-12 07:24:20 · 10 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like they may be jealous of you... who cares what they think. Your a better person than they are! :)
2007-01-12 07:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a pretty girl with a low self-esteem? I've noticed women love to pick on those who they're jealous of, and not strong enough to defend. Start training yourself to become stronger if thats the case. Stop trusting in other people so easily, if thats apart of the problem.
I'm a guy, and I get the jealously thing from other guys all the time because they expect me to be dumb and weak when they see me. They get mad when ever I do better than them at something. I used to let people use me, but after gaining confidence, I use their arrogance against them. Maybe your situation is similar?
2007-01-12 15:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two possibilities. One, maybe you are not this beautiful person you aspire to be. It's very difficult to look at yourself objectively. Ask someone you totally trust to be honest with you. Or.... like many wonderful people, you are unconsciously attracted to losers in life. That truly sounds like a large number of people who find you to be offensive. Especially the part about teachers. Most teachers are so supportive of students who have goals because most student don't. Something just doesn't jell here.
2007-01-12 15:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are sending the wrong vibe or something. Usually people don't act like that towards another person for no reason
2007-01-12 15:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy maybe they want to have your life could be many things but i wouldn't be discouraged you will find your soulmate when its time and then no one will come between you.
2007-01-12 15:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one answer Hon. There is something about you they are very jealous of. Continue being yourself and prove them wrong.
2007-01-12 15:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Erica R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOMEN ARE SO JEALOUS OF EACH OTHER THAT THEY RIDICULE EACH OTHER TO MAKE THEMSELVES FEEL BETTER. I SAY IGNORE THE NEGATIVE, AND BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE. WOMEN WILL SAY OR DO ANYTHING TO GET WHAT YOU HAVE. THEY WILL TRY TO STEAL YOUR MAN. THEY WILL TELL LIES ABOUT YOU TO MAKE THEMSELVES FIT IN. ITS SOMETIMES CALLED PEER PRESSURE AND THEN SOMETIMES IT CALLED JUST SIMPLE STUPIDITY . GIRLS ARE IMMATURE. SEARCH WITHIN YOURSELF AND FIND GOD, BECAUSE HE WILL ALWAYS BE THEIR TO ENCOURAGE AND MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF. GOD IS LOVE AND WITH GOD ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. YOU MUST BELIEVE TO ACHIEVE. DON'T LET ANYBODY PUSH YOU AROUND. STAND FIRM AND FEEL CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF. WHO NEEDS GIRLFRIENDS? KEEP TO YOURSELF, SOCIALIZE AND ASSOCIATE BUT DONT GET TO CLOSE TO ANY FEMALE.
2007-01-12 15:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by JENELLTHUNDER26 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey A ss you aren't beutiful knowbody is i can't belive you put that there i was so raged that i didn't even read the rest of it :z
2007-01-12 15:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you're cute! they probably just love seeing your face when they tease ya!
2007-01-12 15:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by shine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself
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2007-01-12 15:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋