How do I tell a guy I am no longer interested in and don't want to go out with him without sounding harsh or breaking his spirit/heart? We had a pretty intense week, very passionate, but I realized yesterday that we have very little in common and I am not interested in dating him. He is a bit younger than me, I got swept up in the moment, realized a bit too late that we are not very compatible or on the same mental mental level. I do believe he is a sweetheart and don't want to end it badly.
2007-01-12 07:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by candygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are so sweet to think that way but there is no really good way to let someone down unless the both realized the same thing. I had this happen to me once but we both felt that it wasn't quite right and we were more like brother and sister than lovers. That was the only time I can recall not taking a break up badly.
You're going to have to explain to him first then try to let him down easy but re-enforce it with you still want to be a GOOD friend just not lovers. I know it's an old line but it does work many times and hopefully it will work for you.
Good luck and be happy.
2007-01-12 07:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, its gonna hurt him but he will be better off knowing now rather than down the line once he has fallen further! Or you could tell him you are becoming a nun.
2007-01-12 08:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Scott T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll still take his load.. but at this point in time you wnat to be able to fcuk more guys...Tell him that you still want to remain frinds but if at some point in time feelings change ther will always be a chance that you will reject other cokc and start fcuking him on the regular again...
2007-01-12 07:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you're a lesbian...I bet you won't break his heart! So he'll just walk away like nothing really happened
2007-01-12 07:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chicken Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he is a really nice guy and that you had a great time being with him, but you just think that it might be better off if you were friends.
2007-01-12 07:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by lauren 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need some space and just want to be friends..
2007-01-12 07:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you had a good time, but it's time to move on.
2007-01-12 07:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋