I met this girl over the internet, we went out and had a fantastic night. The chemistry is there and we both liked each other. We even maked out and left toghether. I called her the next day and we talked for almost and hour. She called be back two hours later just to say good nite. I like her but don't want to seem desperate, I've been out of the dating scene for 8 years and don't remember if its good to call her every day, or give her some space and wait for her to call me. But then I don't want to give the impression I'm not interested. She's 25 I'm 29. Should I call her every night or every other night?
2007-01-12 07:11:59 · 10 answers · asked by gboptions1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be honest with this new found friend and let her know how you feel. Tell her you really enjoyed your time together and can't wait until you see her again. Let her know that you want to spend as much time with her as you can and that includes talking on the phone but you don't want to be a pest so you would like her to tell you if it's OK for you to call her everyday. By doing this, you have told her how you feel and what you would like to do. When she answers you, listen carefully and sacrifice the calls if that is what she wants you to do.
Good Luck.
2007-01-12 07:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call once each night, but not constantly during the day (that would show desperation I think). I would return calls and messages, if you don't, you will appear rude.
2007-01-12 07:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every night is too often to start with, have you no life?
Tell her when you're going to call her (say day after tomorrow) and call her when you say you will!
2007-01-12 07:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every other. give her time to call you as well. 3 times a week from you should do it.
2007-01-12 07:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every other night is plenty. Give her some space, but let her know you enjoyed her company.
2007-01-12 07:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a night would be ok but don't talk about deep things and stuff yet. Just keep your conversation light...
2007-01-12 07:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always go with the flow. do what you feel is right im sure that even if she dont tell you its to often you can tell by her tone if its too often
2007-01-12 07:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as you find out that your head over heals lol
I'm real i don't play games!
if she take advantage of that i just move on! if not then we work out great!
2007-01-12 07:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by AnswerMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... WHY dont you want to seem as though you're in LOVE? (every night)
2007-01-12 07:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by blossomoftheseas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can call every day.
2007-01-12 07:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋