When someone says something at the spur of the moment when all is going good,like something from 2 yrs ago that is still bothering him. I have gotten the shakes from being so scared he will explode at the drop of a dime and sometimes he says things and he will turn around and say he never say it and make you seem like you made it up.IT IS NOT MEMORY LOSS.He will say mean ,viscious things and off the wall things and I am stunned with mis beleive and I get so freaked out i have nothing to say back cause it's so mind boggling? He accuses me of things I don't do and tries to make me give him an answer. Even if I try to give him an answer it's not the truth. I am so confused, 3 years of this and I want someone to tell me what this is? Bi Polar?Extreme Jealousy? Insecure? What I am really looking for is a Medical name for this Illness.
2007-01-12 07:09:23 · 5 answers · asked by lorry42766 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
What "this" is is someone being a huge $##@!@@! There are to many mental health terms that it would be impossible to list. He may just be a ((*%$! Blow him OFF and stay safe!
2007-01-12 07:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I'm sorry to read this. I don't know a medical term for it, but I was involved in the same for 10 years, it's called being insecure, being in control and mind games - in a nutshell, he is a control freak playing mind games and the more he bombards you with questions, the more you can't answer them, the more insecure he feels, then more questions and your lack of answers makes you want to convince him that all is well, so the controlling is in, and the chances are that if anyone says anything to him about you, he will select certain parts of what was said and hang on to it and twist it to use that against you for more mind games and more controlling to feed his insecurity. You're not losing your memory, but the shock of the sudden questioning puts you on the spot and you can't find the answer he is looking for - So, unless you are prepared to continue putting up with this, cos he won't change, I'd walk. Sorry.
2007-01-12 15:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by doublieveinlifeafterlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is not a name for a condition. What you need is to get away from that person. You are being abused mentally. Protect yourself. You deserve much better than that.
R U N A W A Y !!! (1st check out a safe place to take you in like a Women's Distress Centre.)
Good luck.
2007-01-12 17:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called PUSSY WIPED. He has it all, but what you do is act CRAZY right back with his ***, start yelling for no reason at all. Start walking up behind him and scaring the crap out of him. When he accusses you of things just try to acuse him back with the same stuff. One day when you let himm know that you are no longer scared of him he will stop, also stop loving him so well that will drive any man crazy
2007-01-12 15:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like mental abuse, he's messing with you and it probably won't get any better for you, as long as he knows he can manipulate you, he will continue to do this
2007-01-12 16:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋