He wants to move out and get a place togehter.
We are broke up right now we were living together until I seen where his ex is calling him.
He tells me he dont know why he gave her his number.
he loves me does not want her and wants to be with me.
I dont know what to think?
2007-01-12 07:06:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes im mad at him - he has had this phone for 3 weeks.He dated her before when we broke up last eyar. He knows how I feel about her.
2007-01-12 07:09:54 · update #1
Lots of hollow echo-y sounds...
Get rid of him. He's using you. Basically you've become his fallback. A place to go when plan A doesn't work out.
2007-01-12 07:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by wickywickyjoka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to read what you have written. If you two have separated, then there is a reason for it. If you broke it off with him, then you for some reason are not happy with his actions or decisions.
If he is speaking with his ex it is not a big deal, unless he is hiding it form you, because people that have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
I think that you have already made the right choice and should date a little, nothing to serious but play the field see who else is available in this world.
Life is short so live it to be happy and to find happiness.
In short I guess I am saying do what makes you happy, whatever that may be.
Sorry to hear about your troubles and I hope your days get better.
2007-01-12 07:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by David H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that I still talk with my ex girlfriend and still care about her (not sex). I'm sure I'm older then this guy which can make a deference. You need to look at this from a perspective how well do you know him and can he be trusted. I also think I need to tell everyone that it is possible to love more then one person. Anyone who thinks in terms of one true love is living in fantasy land.
So it is very possible he does love you, but also still has strong feelings for his ex. Again it comes down to do you trust him. If not move on. If you do trust him, make some rules like he can talk to her once in a while, but not see her in person. At the very least have a very serious talk with him, please note I said talk not an argument. ~A~
2007-01-12 07:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by porsche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are having doubts, and so you need to listen to that and do some thinking. Away from everyone. Him giving the ex the number is troubling, people do not do things without reason. Did she ask for it, did he offer it? Would you get the truth if you asked him. He sounds lonely and just wanting someone around to help with the bills. I think you just need to date him for awhile and see his real intentions. Take your time.. If he really wants you, he will stick around.
2007-01-12 07:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Briandking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? I have no clue what is up with him...but if you are broken up and he has his ex calling him...he more than likely got together with her somewhere along the line. He loves you? Then he shouldn't have given his phone number to his ex, period. I wouldn't be very forgiving...I would pack his stuff up and send him on his way. More than likely, he doesn't have another place to move into. Status quo is pretty easy. Move him out. Obviously, you are going to do what you want. Good luck!
2007-01-12 07:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is do you trust him, if so, then he is telling you the truth, if you cant trust him then he is prolly lieing. You are the better judge then I am. But from a guys point of view, id give my ex my new number for one reason only. Have a nice day.
2007-01-12 07:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave her his number for a reason!! Dump him and stay away you can find someone else who doesn't play games!!!! Good Luck!! With the added information you just gave you confirmed that he is a really big jerk. Don't move back in with him you will regret it!! Take some time and you will find someone else who treats you with respect and who you can trust!! Don't let this jerk ruin all guys for you!!
2007-01-12 07:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I surely have PAID into social secure practices all my existence and need to gather some exams once I retire . that makes me and all and sundry else with a job right here a SOCIALIST . what's incorrect with that ? why do you opt to scouse borrow this from me ?
2016-10-07 01:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither does he!why do girls fall for guys that put them through hell?so many beautiful and bright girls/women out there that settle,and i will never understand it.i personally think it would be better to be single than to put up with BS from a mate!wish you luck on whatever you decide!
2007-01-12 07:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by BULL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my boyfriend that if he truly loved me that he would change his number and that he would never talk to that little "B" again. We have not had a problem with it since. Guys are stupid and they don't think with there brain nor there heart they think with there *****.
2007-01-12 07:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋