i need love from a boy?

Question

for me it is hard to get the good and careing boy's,whene i like some one it is hard to let them know how i fell about them,i have been with good and not so good boy (dateing) and most of the time all they are after is SEX,what sould i DO???????????.......

Answer 1

you need to raise your standards,..and let the crap fall to the wayside.
only accept good boys no exception.

Answer 2

Wow, ok, here is what you do.... the next time you have a thought, just go ahead and chuck it right into the old trash pile. You have what I like to call a D.S.P. You are suffering from a dumb Sh1t Problem. So next time you think you cant find a decent guy, it is because that is not what you want. Admit that you like jerks, all women do. If you really wanted a nice guy who would love you for the rest of your life, go down to your local college and walk into the computer science department, they are nice, sweet, desperate (which with your lack of self esteem will be perfect) and they will follow you around like a little lost puppy. They may not be fun to look at, well the one with the skin condition is, but if you want nice that is where you look. Or you can go date a jock or a "cool" guy which will eigther beat you and/or get you pregnant and leave you for your best friend, oh wait, you dont have friends... guess that means he can only do one thing to you.

Answer 3

Let me think now, a boy is someone who is under age and takes no responsibility, doesn't know what he's doing, and all he knows is that his hormones are kicking in. If you are wanting a boy, then you probably are a girl, and girls should not be in any position to be needy. Certainly that's all they want is sex, because "boys" are immature. Get your education, and a good career/job, pay for your car, have some savings, and "then" find yourself a man with education, etc. That means wait till the playing field is equal, about age 27.

Answer 4

Be blunt, right from the start tell them what you want in a relationship, and if they can't deal with it, they can leave. (not that harsh though, you may frighten them. Boys have tough personas but they really aren't that emotionally tough.) The best word in a womans vocabulary about the sex thing is just flat out no. And if he asks why, don't make up an excuse, then just tell them because you don't feel like it, and stick to your answer.

Answer 5

Why do you need love from a boy?Concentrate on other areas of your life & save that stuff for when you are older & the boys grow up enough to respect a woman.

Answer 6

Set your standards a little higher Hon. Only the truely caring and loving type of guys need to apply. Otherwise all you get is a"walking hormone".

Answer 7

well first off, you shouldn't need love from a boy. you don't have to depend on them to make you feel good..
second off, stop giving them sex if that's all they want. if a guy can't take you and like you for you, then what's the point of being with them?

Answer 8

Boys will always want sex. That is how they are engineered. Whether they love you are not. So give yourself some time. Don't give in to something you don't want just because you're feeling desperation.

Answer 9

Just don't give to them. You know that boy that everybody calls a nerd or the one that is always quiet? That is the one who will respect you (unless he is just plain creepy)

Answer 10

Some boys can be pigs!!!!! When you are dating make sure they know what kind of girl you are from the beginning. From their behavior you will know what they have in mind.

Answer 11

Boys are all about sex. They will tell you anything you want to hear just to get you in bed.