ok...yesterday my boyfriend told me that his friend scott was going to his house and i knew that he was lying to me...but umm...i caught him that it wasn't his friend scott it's another boy that i hate because when they get along they start smoking and he's my neighbor my boyfriend...and he still said no that it was scott and i saw another guy...should i be mad at him for lying to me!!
2007-01-12 07:02:55 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KICK HIM IN THE YAM BAGS!!!!!
2007-01-12 07:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah ofcourse you can go mad at him .... but that will not solve the issue ...first what you need to know is what is it which you din't like ... the other guy or smoking??? once you sure wats hurting u more ... think about how its affecting ur boy fren in real lyf and explain him wid luv dat Sweeheart c i dont mind u smoking but u know it creates bla bla ... problems or explain him about why its wrong being with that another guy ...... some times going mad will in returns make other person go more mad and it all ends up in mess....
2007-01-12 07:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Prash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 01:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. tell him how you found out and then ask him why he lied to you. just be honest with him...if he is a good boyfriend he would fess up and i would then forgive him on the spot...if an argument entails then I would probably rethink him being a good boyfriend... if he is lying about something as stupid as this... he could be lying about other things as well.
2007-01-12 07:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Picorosan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's lying to you because you obviously are trying to control who he hangs out with. If this other guy is his friend, then you have no right to say he can't see him.
It is bad to lie, but I think you put him into that position.
2007-01-12 07:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Julian A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm mad at you for telling me to read this....like OK...its boring be glad you got a boyfriend
2007-01-12 07:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very mad not just what he's doing but that he lied to you
That's a big deal to me
2007-01-12 07:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty's really important in a relationship, but temper your anger with some empathy. Ask yourself why he felt it necessary to lie to you? Try to see things from his perspective before you blow your top.
You need to encourage him to behave honestly.
2007-01-12 07:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are trying to control who he can and cannot associate with you are asking for conflict. Parents can barely do that. How much luck do you think you will have?
The urge to control the people we date is strong when our expectations are unrealistic.
2007-01-12 07:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by homerq7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there are more important things in life to worry about than that but if he is going to lie about who hes hanging out with than he acting like a child so treat him like a child
2007-01-12 07:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by porkchop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no who cares, you're being a baby for trying to choose who he's friends with. Obviously hes not gonig to stop hangign out with them, so he is going to lie to you to avoid a fight.
2007-01-12 07:06:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋