How can I get my boyfriend to "touch/grope" me without asking him to? I am to shy to ask and hes just a shy person in general.
2007-01-12 06:37:05 · 39 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grab his hand and guide to where u want it to be
2007-01-12 06:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it first and do it often. When he does, let him know he's doing the right thing and you enjoy it. What your feeling now is how most married men and boyfirends feel on a daily basis - you ladies never return it. Every once in a while we like to be touched/groped without first having to beg for it. The final payoff to the begging makes us feel cheap when its done with the common "you asked for it, here is is, yawn" attitude.
2007-01-12 06:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a shy person also but here is what I do...I just sit close and maybe just give a hug or two. then I might kiss him or set my hand on his leg. But if you are both shy then it is up to you to get things going. He won't just "touch" you cause he is afraid you won't accept it the way he wants you to. so if you start it then he will most likely fallow. but just be honest with him and things will work out. good luck!
2007-01-12 06:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by lbitsports 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your "boyfriend" then obviously you are beyond the point of that famous first date. Obviously you are beyond the point of the first kiss, etc. etc. etc.... Now days, boys are not offended if a girl just takes his hand and sort of "shows" him what to do? So my suggestion is this. Show him! It does not make you cheap or slutty. In fact, if any anything, it might impress him to point where he will appreciate you more and respect you more. Trust me on this. I am a boy. I know. LOL
2007-01-12 06:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel him up! Put his hands where you would like to be touched. Moan softly so he knows that's a sweet spot for you.
Sex should be fun and without inhibitions. Play some games....laugh a little..don't take it quite that seriously.
Good Luck!
2007-01-12 06:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys will never get anything done if you are both shy like that. One of you has to start first. Or maybe write him a little note. I am really shy and I love to write notes.
2007-01-12 06:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like my girlfriend once did, as you are necking, take his hand and place it on your breast. If he takes the bait, then you should begin to give him a massage. Works every time. If he pulls his hand away, you need to cool it or look for a new boyfriend.
Hey, give me a buzz, I'll take the bait. lol
Good luck.
2007-01-12 06:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by P W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know, a person's sexuality is set very early in childhood. I guess you could pretend to be a boy; but since he already knows the deal, I doubt it will work.
Good Luck!
2007-01-12 06:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grope him by grabbing his butt. He will will see it as inviting. When your kissing put his hands where you want them he'll get the hang of it.
2007-01-12 06:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say this. From one woman to another, you should know how to do this. The right body language, a provocative pose.A guy would have to be a real idiot not to know what that means.
2007-01-12 06:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Tori M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start kissing him and touching him. He'll get the picture
2007-01-12 06:40:14 · answer #11 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋