Ok well there's this guy. && I really really like him a LOT. But there's one BIG problem.. One of my best friends is dating him. I've liked him since way before they started dating, and he liked me. So he asked me out, but I knew my friend liked him so I said no. BIG MISTAKE! And now that they've been dating he's been hanging out with us a lot and I like him even more now. And I really think he likes me too. Maybe that's just wishful thinking but I do. I know he does at least a little. But they seem really happy together. Well my friend seems happy with him anyways. && I don't want to ruin that but at the same time I don't want to let my possible chance with him pass me by either. What do I do???
2007-01-12 06:33:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you move on and leave things alone
2007-01-12 06:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 some
2007-01-12 14:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends are hard to come by and friendships are far more important than any guy. If something is going to happen between the two of you, then that should happen when he's not dating your friend.
The last thing you want is to break up a relationship where both parties seem 'happy'. You may lose her as a friend and he may not even be worth it. So just forget about it and be a good friend to both of them, but mainly your best friend. Maybe you are reading too much in to actions, but if he's actually sending you signals while dating your best friend, he's not a guy worth dating.
2007-01-12 14:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by GaLFurend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. That could have been said in a few sentences lol. Well just think rationally about this, don't beat yourself up. It all comes down to whether you're a good friend. Don't ruin between them. If he likes you the way you say he does, he should make the move and break up with her. You can't do anything, STAY PUT. In that way, she'll never suspect that you wanted to date him. Time will solve everything, just don't do anything stupid that will hurt your friendship. Don't let a guy ruin that. It's much more important than any guy. I'm sure you know that. Good luck and take care. ;)
2007-01-12 14:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by foofoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, they will break up by next month or the month after, but trust me, teen romances just do not last. You'll get your turn, just wait in line. Plus, you'll get all the details from your best friend on their break-up when it happens and you'll see his true colors at that point, and maybe you'll decide this jerk ain't that great after all, because the way he treats her is the way he'll treat you as well. Be glad you get a sneak preview of what's to come before it's too late to avoid it
2007-01-12 14:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U do nothing. Other wise you ar ea back-stabbing and terrible friend. U passed when he asked you out, that was your mistake. Dont then turn around and make a bigger mistake by trying to move in on your friends bf. That is just utterly selfish. U will have to wait until waaaaay after they break up. Lesson learned.
2007-01-12 14:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look elsewhere. If this guy is meant to be for you, he would have asked you out first. In my opinion, he is getting the both of both worlds. A girlfriend and a girlfriend's girlfriend.
He might even like you more is he sees that you aren't so focused on him anymore.
Focus elsewhere for now.
2007-01-12 14:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by ociana40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already passed up your chance when you told him no you wouldn't go out with him. Now shut up and deal with the consequences before you lose him and your friend.
2007-01-12 14:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate to say this but you had your chance. If it is meant to be I'm sure you will get a second opportunity to make the correct choice.
2007-01-12 14:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by spanishflycutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ue chance is gone, when he asked and u said no, now u cant do anything else, u still can be his friend but nothing else u can do if he is with her,because when he asked u out and u said no, he might tought that u dosnt like him
2007-01-12 14:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Waite you sound young, form a friend ship now and you re time will come.
2007-01-12 14:37:21 · answer #11 · answered by danceteacher5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋