So today I went out to buy a few things
while my girlfriend wanted to stay in and watch tv.
30 minutes later I get back home
and I found her in my room looking through a few boxes
of mine where I stashed all my wicked mags and DVDS.
I explanined to her that those were my brothers!
She is still skeptical about it so what should I do??!
2007-01-12 06:32:34 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should take you as you are, or not take you at all. Give her an ultimatum: accept my porn stash or it's over ! You shouldn't have been hiding it anyway. Then you made matters worse by saying it was your brothers. Why give your brothers credit for collecting such fine porn ? Get some balls.
2007-01-12 06:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have one question. If you have a girlfriend, why do need a stash of porn stuff? She is probably thinking she is not good enough for you. How can she really compete with that unrealistic stuff? Don't lie and tell her the truth and then talk about it. You owe it to both her and yourself to do this, otherwise you may spoil your relationship and won't be able to lie about it next time she finds it and she will.
2007-01-12 06:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tori M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do not comprehend the reaction, in my opinion, yet a variety of of females get shielding and indignant if their boyfriends / husbands have porn. i imagine they sense that a guy could no longer 'favor' to have porn in the experience that they are chuffed of their courting. i imagine different difficulty could also come from questioning even if he would favor her to be more suitable like the girls in porn: youthful, perkier, more suitable kinky, and so on. all of it in all probability comes all the way down to lack of self belief. yet i'm a woman who likes porn, so what do i recognize?
2016-10-30 22:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend doesn't sound very trustworthy if she snoops in your boxes while you're out. There's nothing wrong with a young guy who has a few dirty magazines in his room. Unfortunately now your relationship is in trouble because 1) she thinks you're into porn, and 2) you lied to her about it. I'd talk to her straight about the situation, and if she can't deal with it, it's time for you to move on.
2007-01-12 06:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont understand why girls would get mad at guys for over these issue. When i found my hubby ( he was my boyfriend at the time) porn, i didnt say much. I know that he can have the picures/dvd to watch and see but he can never have them. And beside, it benefited me in the long run, guys dont ask about position from their dad, where else are they going to learn new position? lol sounds kind of funny but it is true... she just needs to relax.... as long as you are not going out there looking for some other ***.....
2007-01-12 06:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her more credit and tell the truth. She knows you are lying. Are you a porn addict or do you just watch porn now and then?Assure her that she is the hottest and maybe she'll forgive you for lying. Then discuss the huge box of porn in your house.
2007-01-12 06:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by -- 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow a box of porn in your house not smart. Magazines are outdated. Just use the computer no hard evidence it's the easiest way.
2007-01-12 06:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her not to go through stuff that dosent belong to her its basicaly an invasion of privacy. also kinda just lie and say those were from a long time ago and theyre your brothers pay him a few dollers to say they were his. hey safer way is the internet create a bookmark under a name your girlfrend wont wanna look under lol good luck bro
2007-01-12 06:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have told the truth because it's natural to be interested in porn. No big deal. If she doesn't understand or respect that, then she has issues and you need to give her some space.
2007-01-12 06:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by UVRay 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell her the truth if she loves u she wont' really care.for one thign she shoudln't have been snooping if she was supposadly watching tv and after u fess up then get rid of them if u love ur gf she'll be all the "porn" u need.
2007-01-12 06:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋