we have been 2gether 4 8 years have 3 children, i can make her orgsam in seconds but she wont have any of it, whats that all about
2007-01-12 06:25:30 · 31 answers · asked by shaun j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all the things u say r the answers i would give, but she needs 4 nothing has time out with me and her friends but there is no passion in her, we talk lots cuddle more but no sex !!!
2007-01-12 06:40:53 · update #1
LOL
2007-01-12 06:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's tired from handling the 3 kids. Maybe you need to make her feel like a WOMAN again. Maybe she doesn't feel desirable. Maybe she is having a problem with her body image. Hell 3 kids will take its toll on anyones body mind and energy. Communicate without being pushy and really listen. Take her away to some place special and sexy.
2007-01-12 19:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has replaced you darling, you have been together for a while and maybe someone has caught her eye. if you want to catch it back remember what you did to get it in the first place. romance her and treat her like a equal and make some pillow talk time without wanting sex, and when you show her your making an effort of being there to listen then she will come around if there is still love in her heart for you, you have a long road to haul, so don't ask that is the biggest turn off, be there for her and make her ask for it you are not mindless, so be full of surprises for her, and good luck
2007-01-12 06:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe your girlfriend wants you to take interest in other things about her,not sex all the time...you should be able to explore her other needs..maybe that's why she wants to spend time with her friends..she probably has so much she wants to tell you about,but thinks you'll just ignore what she's saying, you should sit her down and regain her confidence in you,you should start by not refering to her as a fridge.....about the sex,you should take it slow...women who've had kids feel kind of out of place about sex...because now they see themselves as mothers..so start by telling her that she is still attractive and that you'd like to make love to her,not necessarily just getting her to climax.....don't be in a rush, am sure she'll appreciate you more...
2007-01-12 07:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you typed your question looks like you've been married 48 years so be happy you're getting anything. Giving a woman an orgasm in seconds is not a good thing. Women like foreplay. You're idea of foreplay sounds like you let her pee before sex. Slow down!
2007-01-12 06:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a not too dissimilar problem with my wife except that we've been married much longer. Has she always been like this? If not then something went wrong. In that case you have three options 1) get professional help. 2) be patient in the hope that she'll return to normal 3) have extra marital sex. If she has always been like this, then that's her nature. Skip options one and two.
2007-01-12 06:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Alain M 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She is getting back at for something. Try helping out around the house more, or here is an idea, marry her, make her an honest woman. She resents you for something and is not putting out, or she is so tired with the 3 kids she has given up. You need to either help out or get her a house keeper once a week. then she will put out.... :)
2007-01-12 06:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The first answer sounds good to me. You seem to be a little full of yourself. Work on that and come back to us at a later date.
2007-01-12 06:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
r u obsessed with Sex, or what?
what does it matter how/when or why.
if she's not happy, listen 2 what she's saying 2 u.
try slowing down & taking ur time 4 heavens sake!
2007-01-12 06:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-12 10:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by vannostrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ice Box sounds cooler
2007-01-12 06:28:27 · answer #11 · answered by Trey 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋