It's been a year & a half since my boyfriend was murdered, & as soon as I move on, i get hurt. I've known him for four day, hes a truck driver & he flagged me down in traffic, just 2 ask4my number, he calls & seems so sweet & sincere. But the thing was I subconscious saw my boyfriend in him. It's like i picked up where my boyfriend & I left off with this new guy. Expectin him 2 be my boyfriend sorta,They were so similar, both of them were older guys (28, Im 19), & both of them were bad-boys turning good.So this four days moved VERY Fast, we were making out in his car & he gave me oral sex. Then he tried to have sex with me but I stopped him before he could penetrate. He didn't seem angry with me at all. But he hasn't called in two days, & when I call him he ignores my call. What gives? He didn't really hit it & quit it, but why is he ignoring my calls? I call him & leave messages asking why he isn't speaking to me? Should I stop calling him?
2007-01-12 06:25:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop calling and get used to being burnt. that's life.
2007-01-12 06:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK u gave your number to a trucker who is 28 when u are only 19?!! Yeah sorry to say u got burned. U are still young and u need to look out for the older guys. They generally only want a.ss from the random girls they flag down in traffic. I am sorry about your boyfriend. That is really hard, but I am sure after you get back out there and meet some guys your own age, things will get better. Move on from this trucker guy thoguh, he is too old for you, and it sounds like he has moved on from you anyways. Stop calling him, and dont meet up with him. He is still the bad-boy... case in point he hit on a young, bulnerable girl.
2007-01-12 06:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not try to call back until he calls you back first because, frankly you may have not intentionally ran him off with thoughts of your ex(God rest his soul). It's not easy to just pick up after the death of someone like that, I commend you. Give it a little time, four days and you're having relations with guy shows you are still vulnerable to intimacy and perhaps he doesn't want to be the one who breaks your heart after such an issue. If he doesn't call you after a week or two then you need to let your "soul mate" find you. You will undoubtedly know him when he comes. Trust me!
2007-01-12 06:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. He's an ***. Take time to heal, gurl!!! Deal with the passing of your boyfriend. Stop looking for him in other people. He wanted to 'hit it"...he gave you the 'munch' because he thought he was going to get his in return. When you didn't....he moved on....I mean think about it....he flagged you down from the street...not saw your IQ Test. Don't worry about a 4 day friend. Mourn your deceased BF (and you have my condolences...seriously....I can't imagine what you went through) but don't put yourself in that position again. And, its dangerous!
Good Luck!
2007-01-12 06:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get burned because your behavior is atrocious. Picking up strange men at a truck stop, engaging in risky sexual activities, moving too fast with a man you don't know, letting him put his mouth all over you. Yes, he did "hit it and quit it" - which is why he's ignoring your calls. Stop calling, clean up your act, and start behaving like a lady, rather than a truck-stop hooker.
2007-01-12 06:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you were moving sorta quick? I mean it was only 4 days and you let him eat you out in a vehicle, get him all worked up and then stop him but want to keep talking to him.....I am amazed.
2007-01-12 06:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop calling him. Look for someone who wants to take care of you and make you happy. If that doesn't happen in the first 5 minutes you should blow him off.
Also, I'm sorry for your loss.
2007-01-12 06:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry about your boyfriend but the right person will come around, don't go chasing someone, remember guys are lead by the d**k and he just might be upset that you did not let him have his way. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-12 06:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Maria Laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should stop calling him. but i would get to know somebody b4 i jump into bed and have sex wit the person. mayb he just wanted some action. and he knew how to get it. it was probaly like a one nite stand. but try to contact him..
good luck
2007-01-12 06:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by art w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you got your nut! Just move on.
2007-01-12 06:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by wedged15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋