. I am not so sure. I?
kicked him out, we were living with my parents and he had been talking to his ex.
He just recently gave her his new cell phone.
I have asked him to stop talking to her and we could work things out. He says he does not want to be with her.
I am not sure if I should move him back in with my parents, he says he wants us to get our own place which we were saving to do.
I overreacted and should have talked to him like an adult. Now we are really scruffed on money. I wanted to wait longer and think things over but he doesn't have anywhere to go other than back to my parents with me.
What should I do?
What would you do?
2007-01-12 06:20:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even in todays society...thre people in a relationship will not work...move on.
2007-01-12 06:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your problem and certainly not your parent's problem to house your current boyfriend. If you need time to figure this out...going back to the way things were will NOT help. You will get right back in to the same ebb and flow of things; counter-productive to what you are trying to achieve.
As much as you may care for him, do not inherent his problems and get back with him because you don't want to see him on the street.
I am sure there may be all sorts of circumstances and you'll say, "No, he really needs somewhere to stay and I....." Quit it. He's man. Do not enable his dependency on you and your parent's gracious generosity.
Take a step back. Did you think that maybe he wants to get back with you because he seems homeless? Talk to him, but do not bring that drama back in to your parent's home.
Good Luck!
2007-01-12 14:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are how old ? First of all, if you are married and living with your parents, that is so WRONG. If he were any kind of a man, he would have a job and taking care of his business. And he is giving another woman his cell phone? Think about what you have typed. This guy has LOSER written all over him. Kick the jerk to the curb and FAST!
2007-01-12 14:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by hazeleyedbeauty1967 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His a man....Has 2 hand, 2 feet and is in good health there id noi reason y u should provided for him. let him provided for you. Make sure that the only reason why he is going back you, is because he has no where to go. Plus you don't wanna guy who's disrespecting you in your parents house. because your parents may also take offense to that.
2007-01-12 14:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move back with your parents and leave him alone, he is still interested in his ex or he wouldnt still talk to her. save your money and get a place of your own. someone better will definatly come along.! It would be hard but i would just leave him alone!
2007-01-12 14:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by abr0k3n_h3art3d1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you have already made up your mind. So many questions....you kicked him out already, ex gf he wont get rid of, shacking up.... this sounds like a no brainer to me.
2007-01-12 14:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT NEED HIM, ESPECIALLY IF HE IS STILL DEALING WITH HIS X.
2007-01-12 14:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋