my bf needs to do hes revsion for hes a level exams on monday but i realy miss him.i told him im willing to trave for 1 hour 20 min cause thats how long it takes to get from mine to hes and ill go to hes door.ill only stay for like 3 hours and thats it.my friends taking me out tommow night for dnner but i wanna see him in the day time and tha see my m8 at night.i wont see him next week.am i been selfish wonted to see my bf who i only see once a week
2007-01-12 06:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes doing physics,maths and chemistry.im not doing A levels.
2007-01-12 06:10:27 · update #1
i cant,me not seeing him making me so depressed and its doing the same to my bf.
2007-01-12 06:11:23 · update #2
leave him alone and stop being so selfish you'll see him after the exams and in all fairness i think their a bit more important why dont you go see him for half an hour while he's taking a break or something instead of makin him stop for 3hours
2007-01-14 02:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way it works i'm afraid. I'm in a very similar situation myself. I'm currently in my final year of uni at Teesside uni, and my Boyfriend lives in a village near York and he's running his own business. Between us we have very little time to be together, he works all week and i'm at uni during the week and work at the weekend.
I know how you feel about getting depressed, it does the same to me. I end up curled up in bed crying.
The way we deal with not being togther is to talk on the internet, that way we can both stil get our work done. It might not work for you, but you could try ringing him when you get into bed, We do that and just the sound of his voice helps me relax.
Just keep reminding yourself that he is doing these A levels to better his education and eventually get a good job. And his exams will be over soon. Arrange to spend a day with him after his exam, sort of like a reward for working hard to revise for his exam.
Hope it helps
2007-01-12 06:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Iccle bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling you are one of life's worriers and you need to lighten up a bit.Plenty of good advice offered already but please leave your Boy friend to get on with his work.If you put pressure on him to choose between working for his future and seeing you ,he is going to be sensible and choose work. Have a nice night out with your mate and give him a ring when you get in.He will thank you for it in the end .A week passes very quickly.
2007-01-12 07:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by pigtailkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you should do, ask him if he wants a hand with it many hands make light work, im in college at the moment and am glad of any kind of advice given, or give him the space he needs he will be there for you when he has finished i'm sure.
2007-01-12 06:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him how you feel. Explain that you really want to see him 'cus you love him, he wont be cross about that! If he needs to do revision compromise with him. Offer to help him with the revision. At least then you'll still be seeing him and he will still be able to revise. :-)
2007-01-12 06:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him to his revision, dont distract him from that, see him next week instead, absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that!
2007-01-12 06:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one of his A levels is English the best favour you can do for him is to stay away.
2007-01-12 06:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him to do his revision-he needs time and peace,and your showing up will only serve to distract him. I understand you miss him-but if you love him,you've got to allow him this time to take care of the things he needs to do.
2007-01-12 06:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining - he's taking his A levels - which are important - if you can't wait a while there is something wrong! It's his future he is working at - don't screw it up for him!
2007-01-12 06:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not see him is a levels are really important you can see your mate at anytime if you get to see him at night go then unless you do not like him
2007-01-12 06:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋