what comes out of their mouth...
Do you think people who just say whatever is on there mind are too lazy to scan their thoughts first..
2007-01-12 06:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by roy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Well, it depends on your personality type. If you are an extrovert, you tend to say what's on your mind. If you are an introvert, you are more reserved. There are plus points and negative things about both types of personalities. For example, extroverts don't think about what they say, taking the risk of being impolite. Introverts tend to think "too much" and often miss the opportunity to speak. BUt the opinion of introverts is often more valuable since it's more thought- out.
2007-01-12 06:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think everyone sometimes says whats on their mind every once in a while. That doesn't mean that it can be offensive. As a general rule it can be rude and they aren't sensitive to the people around them. Some people are on drugs all the time or they just think that they are " so special". If you want to confront them you can start by saying " I feel that such and such" I wouldn't confide in people that just say what ever is on their mind because they usually are really not good friends and probably never will be. There are degrees of friendship and good friends are people who are sensitive to what they might divulge.
2007-01-12 14:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by gmoore61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't care about another's feelings and just say whatever they will. For a small percentage, the "filter" on their thoughts just isn't there. For most people, they take the time to consider how what they're getting ready to say will come across to the other person. Anyone who is knowingly hurtful, particularly when they're an adult and have gone through a few ups and downs themselves, should be ashamed of themselves.
2007-01-12 14:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t say what’s on my mind often. One is because if I did, I would be starting allot of unnecessary trouble and I’m a mother. Drama isn’t my forte'. And two, life is allot easier and you become allot wiser as a person if you just sit back and observe instead of feeding into, everything :) I don’t think people who blurt everything out regardless of the consequences are lazy, I just feel like they don’t have much concern for themselves or others if they constantly feed into everything and don’t know how to sit back, shut up and learn. Being poise shows character. The quietest people are often the smartest ones ;)
2007-01-12 14:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are thougtless people who dont stop to consider other people. It could be laziness for some of them and for others just not caring. The way to find out is when they say something rude...just say...do you realize how rude that is? See what their reaction is. The ones who dont care will shrug it off, others will stop and think about it and maybe apologize.
2007-01-12 14:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think they're too lazy to scan their thoughts first. I just think that there shouldn't be a need to censor thoughts before verbalizing them. I think it's wrong if people do that out of the blue but if you're addressing them and they say just what they're thinking, it's just as much your fault as it is theirs for asking in the first place.
2007-01-12 14:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jayna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...I am no trained psychologist and I refuse to feel bad for things I actually feel and think. I speak my mind as respectfully as I can but how am I supposed to know if what I say is considered wrong in the social spectrum. If you feel or think something why not express it and debate if need be,, Ya know I agree to disagree with ppl. They definitely don't have to see things as I do, in fact I respect opposite opinions than myself may hold,. I am lazy with some things but this aspect of myself came with hard work. I used to be afraid to tell the truth, but I learned it is hard to be succesful without a hint of aggression.
2007-01-12 14:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be careful what you say when you speak but does this mean that you will not be offended.
In a lot of cases it is not what is said but how it is interpreted that is the problem.
2007-01-12 14:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discretion. it's called discretion.
i know exactly what you mean. My friend's girlfriend does it all the time, I cannot stress enough about HOW MANY TIMES this girl has opened her mouth and said something horrible, or said something that has c*ckblocked me in the past.
she is very stupid, i think that's what it is. stupid people, who do not understand what it is to be discreet about some matters. i hate it, i hate them, they are too stupid to THINK before they SPEAK.
2007-01-12 14:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One reason is they lack impulse control. Another is they don't care. Perhaps they were raised by wolves, or born in a barn
2007-01-12 14:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by MelB 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋