we've been together for about 2 months and he told me he loved me the other day and he did say it first but a way im not for shur if he means it. we talk on the phone and i told him if he didnt mean it then DONT say it, and then he told me after i got of the phone with him.
2007-01-12 06:01:02 · 10 answers · asked by Brittney f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He didn't mean it.... he just wants you to give it up. Let him know you care for him and love him as a friend, that way he won't expect something.
2007-01-12 06:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna know if he loves ya so.. it's in his kiss, that's where it is.. oh ya!
Sorry, had a Cher moment there. Sometime guys think they mean it, but it can be a long time between when they think they mean it, and when they actually do! Loving someone , and BEING in love with some one, are two totally different things.
You can love someone as a person, cause you admire them, your just think the world of them... that kind of thing. But to me, being IN LOVE with someone is like:
1) knowing that YOUR a better person for being them (and vice versa for them) because your life is full and happy.
2) you can't imagine your life without them
3) They've become your best friend. No victory is sweet, if you can't share it with them, and any sorrow is unbearble without them to comfort you.
If you've been dating 2 months... even if a GREAT 2 months.. he probably thinks he's is in love with you... but right now he's really in love with the idea of you. Don't worry..that can grow into real love. And don't get too freaked out either... He's just saying how he feels and do not discourage that (whether its hasty or not). Just take your time, and don't say it back until your ready.
2007-01-12 14:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after two months, i don't trust a man when he says he's going to buy me a present!
seriously, though... two months isn't long enough to really know something like that. i wouldn't take him seriously. besides, how old are you? judging from your spelling, i'm guessing you're too young to really understand and appreciate the concepts involved in love anyway(i know! don't you just hate it when people say that?!?).
2007-01-12 14:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take it seroiusly now a days people say offten but no mean it its just how it is.
2007-01-12 14:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the way he looks at you and if his willing to give every thing up just for you. just look at his body language and if theres a buldge in his pants lol
2007-01-12 14:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by Niela-Tequila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter if he mean it or now, whats important is you have self-respect and have a list of standard in your head of what the man in your life should be.
2007-01-12 14:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him and tell him look me in the eyes and tell me u really love me and if he looks away then he doesnt . but if he looks at u directly then he loves u truly.
2007-01-12 14:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by dragonwhitesoljah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does. Do his actions show that as well. If they do then it is probably for real.
2007-01-12 14:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Loves Ladybugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more then saying it to know if he means it, he's gotta show it, then you'll know his words are true
2007-01-12 14:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just trust him
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2007-01-12 14:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋