Me and My Boyfriend love eachother. We seriously want to spend the rest of our lives together and get married have kids ect. Well, we're planing to start doing " stuff " He asked me if I thought it would be weird after or something. How do I know if it wont be weird after doing " stuff "
2007-01-12 05:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the sound of it one or both of you are either virgins or very inexperienced, presumably still in high school. Fooling around (doing "stuff") is one thing, going all the way to intercourse is another matter, one which will have an effect on how you two perceive each other and relate to each other afterwards. In short, it will be wierd afterwards - how wierd depends on how well the two of you connect intimately. I advise talking to an older relative (cousin, parents, uncles/aunts, grandparents) about sex before taking the plunge and finding out the hard way about the risks involved.
2007-01-12 05:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think just because you said "doing stuff" that you aren't ready for it. If both people aren't ready for it it will be awkard. If you plan on spending the rest of your lives together then wait until you're married and then do "stuff". If you don't feel like you're ready then you're probably not and you should wait because it will be weird.
2007-01-12 14:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any feeling at all that things might be weird then you shouldn't be doing "stuff" because your not mentally ready. Your not comfortable with the idea and you should definately wait.
2007-01-12 13:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Economics Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasnt weird 4 me after doing stuff with a guy....
2007-01-12 13:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure how long you guys have been dating but if you havent "done stuff" how can you be planning your future already?
seems a little premature to me...
things are usually different, usually better if you are close.
2007-01-12 13:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by suede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two love each other then it definatly won't be weird...it should be looked at as magical..and special!
2007-01-12 13:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by ƪ♥ᴀᴀᴙᴓɳ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't be weird you love each other and you should feel warm inside about it
2007-01-12 13:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by arzavier_boyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he want to give it to ya from behind ma dear
2007-01-12 13:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you mean sex. or anything sexual together..If you are feeling weird about it then wait.....wait until the time feels right, and trust me you'll know when it's right...;)
good luck
2007-01-12 13:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Ruchira~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about?
2007-01-12 14:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by alexanderbucephalus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋