how can you make good relations with your inlaws?

Answer 1

first of all show respect n concern though i know no one can genuinely have such feelings abt. their in-laws in first few years,as we have for our own parents .but these initial years r formative years of making these relationship strong so showing n expressing such things is really very -very important.later may be u develop liking for them may not be but in both cases u can continue showing them ur affection n keep the relationship goin.but the second most imp. thing is don't do anything u never want to do just to make them happy,politely tell them ur point of view n refuse.it will be easy for them to accept u as u r in the beginnin than any time later on in life.thirdly don't advice them directly-on any topic rather use ur spouse to convince them on certain porvokin issues.good luck .enjoy happy married life.

Answer 2

this is a universal question that really does not have a str8 answer. No inlaws are ever pleased with their daughter in laws no matter what you do..so i say live far away from them and whenever you meet them (once in a blue moon), respect them and show them a good tiem.

Answer 3

this is the toughest question and to maintain agood relation with inlaws its very difficult i have been married since 7 yrs and i have been a obidient daughter in law but still they r not happy with me infact i respected them like my biological parents but still they have problem and i know they will not change so if u get this anwer i will be happy too ,

Answer 4

By learning as much as you can their perspective and being as attentive as possible to it. This perspective is formed by their culture, the generation that they belong to, their personality and most important, their partial view, which has the natural tendency to want to support and even , some times, be partial to their off-spring. Only like this , you will ensure that you are meeting their needs and not just navigating the waters without any sense of direction on how to get along with them and reasonably please them, but without having to compromise your own sense of values and your own identity. But even more fundamental they should be able to see that you are a trustworthy, responsible person that is not going to be detrimental to their child. Always use respect, good manners and a kind sense of humor about it.

Good luck!

Answer 5

I had major IL problems up until about a year and a half ago. It was to the point that my husband and I almost went to marriage counselling because it was seriously affecting our relationship.

As others said, show your ILs respect BUT demand that respect in return. If you have a problem with them, nip it in the bud and confront them about it, no matter how difficult it may seem at the time. My mother-in-law walked all over me for years until I started standing up to her. We had a couple of (verbal) knock-down, drag-out fights, but things have finally leveled out.

Remember -- you don't have to like them, but it's important for your spouse's sake to get along with them.

Answer 6

I wish I knew the answer...I would become a very rich man. Till then treat them like out-laws.

Answer 7

its pretty new to get used to their habitual living. but you can do one thing , if you treat them as you treat your own bro/sis, it will be better. they will like you if you support them, be friendly and have fun with them, but dont neglect your husband/wife in b/w. hae a nice luck.

Answer 8

Consider and treat them as your parents, they will bless you for your happier life

Answer 9

Love & respect them as you love your own biological parents.

Answer 10

Incest is best put your relation to the test.