ok heres the thing a couple of days ago i told my bf to forget about us cus i was getting tired of him not calling me everyday i mean its bad enough we dont see each other everyday and when he doesnt call or answer my calls it just makes it worse(dont u think?) anyways i had other things on my mind at the time also like the fact that im failing a class and i didnt get a credit for it and me and my dad are going through sum things were kinda not speaking but that situation with him just blew the top off of things in my opinion but the next day i realized that i kinda went too far and apologized to him please only ladies if i can answer this question for me and 18 and older
2007-01-12 05:20:21 · 10 answers · asked by gurl_balla14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that was very good of you to apologize. the best thing you can do in this situation is explain what's going on in your life as best you can to him and how its effecting you. if you think he still is thinking you're crazy then he's not a worthy boyfriend. remember he probably has his own issues to deal with as well.
2007-01-12 05:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with my ex b/f, and we broke up. I do not regret it b/c I know I need someone who is more attentive. I know it may seem selfish but there is some man out there who wants to give the attention and affection I need. But also he had cheated on me before so when he did not call or answer my calls I automatically assumed he must be doing something wrong. But no you are not crazy. I went through it too. You just have to decide for yourself if that is how you want your relationship to be b/c he is not going to change for you. Promise...you cannot change the way a man behaves. Good Luck
2007-01-12 13:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by TiffanyRE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all no i dont think he thinks youre crazy. maybe you jumped ahead to far in telling him this. I think you should sit down and have a heart to heart with himand tell him how hes making you feel by doing what hes doing and ask him if he really loves you and if hes willing to change if not than move on. As for youre class you failed you cant blame the relationship thats an easy way out, get some extra help with this class you wont regret it. As for youre dad and you lifes to ahort to be fighting with the ones you love sit down and talk to him maybe even give him a hug that just might do it.
2007-01-12 13:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by amethyst m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure if you explain to him why you blew up at him and apologize for taking your stress out on him he would understand. If not he isn't supportive enough (considering it seems like you have a lot going on).
As for the daily thing.. that seems extreme. You should have separate lives and not depend on seeing him EVERY day. I understand wanting to talk to him daily, but every now and then you can't do that for other reasons.... it doesn't mean he is uninterested or anything like that. Try not to be so dependent on him. If you both have you separate lives, at least occasionally, it will help in the long run. If you are only really dependent on him bc things that are currently going on, explain that to him and say "listen, i understand we cant hang out everyday and that is okay, but I would really like to at least try to talk daily bc wiht everything happening I just really need someone who knows me and my dad to talk to."
Good luck with everything.
2007-01-12 13:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has it's ups and downs. I suggest you email him or get in touch with him and let him know whats up in your life and apologize... AND MEAN IT! Now I can't tell you if he thinks your crazy or whatever, but trust me, the only way to get through something like this is to talk it through. And try and take things as they come. Try not to let things get to you so easily, you'll be alot happier in the long run.
2007-01-12 13:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by mini_diva_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him for not calling you EVERY DAY?!? Sounds like you threw away a pretty good thing. Why didn't you call him when you wanted to talk? alot of guys just can't remember to do stuff like that. (and perhaps if he wasn't calling as much as he was you would've had more time to study)
2007-01-12 13:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he will forgive you but are you happy with the relationship when he doesn't call or answer your calls. Maybe his feelings are all there.
2007-01-12 13:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by padros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO you want your bf to fall head over heels for you.
2007-01-12 13:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id think you are crazy if you expected me to call you everyday.
2007-01-12 13:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by fly_bo1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relationship has hiccups
be sweet to him and explain
he'll forgive you
2007-01-12 13:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋