im bout 13 and evry guy i ask out says no and all mah friends are with guys and mah bff just broke up with her boy & i really like him wat should i do?
2007-01-12 05:19:55 · 17 answers · asked by canes_cheergirl_1306 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yer 13
be patient
all 3 of my daughters waited til they were 18 before dating anyone
2007-01-12 05:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Aww....13...what a ridiculous and clueless age.lol I remember when I was thirteen I got my second bf, that I never talked to again after he asked me out.lol. I was pretty immature. Anyway guys at that age are immature as well, when you ask them out all you're doing is giving them attention they don't need because all it does is make their heads swell and you're embarrassing yourself. DO NOT ASK ANYONE ELSE OUT. Me personally I didn't pay attention to anyone or at least when I did I got what I wanted, so for you all I can say is ignore them all. You're a little young to be worrying about boys. Love happens when it happens you'll fall into it when you're ready sweetie it'll happen. Don't rush into it too fast because as young as you are, I don't think you could fully handle the feeling. Whatever you do, don't give something as precious as your virginity to someone other than your husband, the man you're going to spend the rest of your life with. The man that's going to take one look at you and know you're the one. Don't give it to some knuckle head who wouldn't even give you the time of day. Focus on your school work sweetie and if a boy comes along, one that asks you out first and that wants nothing more than your company, GO FOR IT. Until then have fun with your friends and STAY IN SCHOOL. Good luck babe. If you need someone to talk to I'm always here babe!!!
2007-01-12 13:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well for starters i think you are slightly too young to date 13 is not quite old enough i think a compatable age for dating is 15 or 16 at least till high school. secondly askin guys out makes you seem desperate like you are throwing yourself at them. and last of all its not that the guys are being mean they just dont feel for you the same way as you feel for them. my honest opinion is to wait a little longer and let yourself mature a little more and let the idiot guys mature some more and then when you are around 14 or 15 start dating it is a wiser decision i dated once when i was 13 and it wasnt nothing special then i waited till i was 16 and it felt much better waiting trust me
2007-01-12 13:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these growing up years are so damn tough girl !! but hey you are gonna get a guy for your self and trust me,its not necassary that you ask guys out...In another 2 or 3 years you'll be more beautifull ~~n guys will be chasing you ~~till then enjoy being single~~focus on getting into shape and just have fun with your friends.Even if you like sum guy,for heaven sake ..dont be the one to first make the move. Your worth much more.Dont you know boys are born to run after girls ;)
2007-01-12 13:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 most boys aren't ready to start dating. You have to realize that girls mature faster than guys do. Keep trying, you will get a guy that has grown up faster than the others. They are out there just keep trying and if they're mean they are too childish for you.
2007-01-12 13:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is relationship status so important to a junior highschool student? You want a boyfriend so you'll be cool and fit in right? Wrong reasons to get involved in a relationship but what ever. There are other ways to be cool, you're 13 try smoking a cigarette or steal one of your dad's beers. I'm sure that will boost your popularity.
2007-01-12 13:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not really natural for most guys at the age of 13 to be thinking about wanting relationships. give them time to mature andyou'll find someone! i didn't start dating until the end of high school.
2007-01-12 13:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that guys are so mean. Just continue to be nice and cute and yourself and you'll be fine. Don't stress to much about boys who don't know anything yet. If you want, I 'll be a nice to you :-)
2007-01-12 13:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by hdedone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK dumb ***. concentrate on school not boys. that's all they are is stupid little boys who have just discovered their penises. go to school get an education and get into college. that what is important you can't even spell and your worried about boys. hell, there's a spell check for god's sake. get a clue kid. your just 13.
2007-01-12 13:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about getting a boyfriend. If you throw yourself at them they'll distance themselves from you. just keep your feelings quiet. Believe me this has happened to me 6 times
2007-01-12 13:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First please learn to spell correctly, it will help you out in life.
Second, at 13 it's all for fun anyway...don't take it seriously...real dating won't occur for a few years yet...just go with the flow...
2007-01-12 13:23:51 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋