my x says that if i get a job and a houes that we wuold talk about geting back together and know he is telling me that iam his doormat,and that we would naver get back together at all what should i do i love him to much we done every thing together and i have done every thing for even if he didnet ask me to.so can you all help me out with all of this mess
2007-01-12 05:15:42 · 16 answers · asked by rndbutterbaugh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may love him, but he doesn't love you. It's time to move on.
2007-01-12 05:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip on your life. He has no right to put conditions on you and him getting back together. And as for you getting a house as a condition, it sounds crazy.
Also, his talk about you being his slave or something is just nuts. You can not allow yourself to be treated like that because it is disrespectful to you. It will not end up well under those conditions, and you are setting yourself up for some very bad experiences.
Time can cure you. All people and particularly woman have to go through times like you are suffering in various stages of life.
Don't give in to your feelings. They are not permanent if you will just give it time.
Good question.
2007-01-12 05:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you did everything for the wrong reason. You should have done those things for you. And personnally any man that tells you that you need to get a job and your own place so he can come there, just seems lazy to me. Because trust me if you need help on te rent the first thing that will come out of his mouth is "this is your place, why should I help?"
2007-01-12 05:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Neea_Gastino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him, don't talk or give him any attention. It will be hard but you have to do. Give him time to realize he misses you rather than following him around. Get your life back together by getting a place to live, he will only walk over you the more you try to give him.
2007-01-12 05:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by padros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but if you are even thinking about getting back with him, you need mental help. The guy wants you to have everything so he won't have to. He's an idiot trying to be a pimp.
Get rid of him and find someone better, from the sound of it, it won't be very hard at all to find someone better.
2007-01-12 06:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is setting rules like that about coming back he can't love you. If he loved you he would still want to be with you if you slept in a carbord box under a bridge and killed kittens for a living.
Sorry to be so straight forward.
2007-01-12 05:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by siylc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOn't mess with him... Get a good stable job and your own place shove it in his face.. U r way better and you will find better then what? You don't know who he's been doin and you don't wanna catch something cuz he's a jerk. Ur smarter than that
2007-01-12 05:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by That girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you did to much and then he thought that he would take advanage.
But try to forget bout him n I'm not saying that it iz easier but this GuY is stupid He doesnt know what he iz missin!!! You can find another man who will appreciate yoou and what you do!
2007-01-12 05:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he told you that you need to get a job and a house, did he mention you need to learn to spell too?
2007-01-12 05:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and get your own house but don't take your X back...
Don't let him in the front door...
Don't take his phone calls..
Don't talk to him...
Find another man...
2007-01-12 05:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋