2007-01-12 05:14:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, dont look at the messages. first ask him to show u the messages himself. if he has nothing to hide he will show u the msgs. but if hes hesitant or he doesnt want to show u and u know for a fact hes msgng her then u gotta sit down and seriously talk to him bout it. just make sure u dont have any msgs of any other guys cuz this can back fire on u and he can turn the tables round to u.
2007-01-12 05:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT READ HIS MESSAGES. That's just psychotic and obsessive. Confront him about it. If he's lying to you, there's nothing really you can do about it until you catch him actually doing something wrong. If you get some REAL evidence without digging in his personal belongings for text messages that may or may not even mean anything, break up with him.
2007-01-12 05:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Your Maker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't snoop on his personal life as this will just create more distrust and problems in your relationship.
Be honest about how you feel (jealous, left out, worried that he doesn't love you/takes you for granted?) and give him a chance to reassure you. The way he responds to your honesty should tell you everything that you need to know about what he's doing on his phone.
2007-01-12 05:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Gabriel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him, and tell him you want to read the messages! If he lets you, there must not be anything wrong. If he doesn't he's a loser and get rid of him!!!
ok ahah .... thats what you should do but here's what i would really do.....
Read the mesages....
Confront him....
act like you never read them ( a little white lie never hurts!)....
and see what happens.....
If he's flirting with this girl get rid of him......!
2007-01-12 05:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by amanda_062 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look at the messages then confront him
2007-01-12 05:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should confront him or look at the messages because you should trust him
2007-01-12 05:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by fly_bo1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at the messages to make sure you're right about it then ask him what's up with that....
2007-01-12 05:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at the messages first so this way you dont fall for his bs when he lies about the content. Then break up with him.
2007-01-12 05:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he friends with this girl?? If he was friends with her for a long time, then I wouldnt worry too much about it. If you freak out on him, he will consider you the jealous girlfriend and probably break up with you.
2007-01-12 05:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to c his phone and then look, if he doesnt let u c the phone then ask him if hes hiding ne thing from u. and if he does let u c, then ask him about her and c whats up with that whole situation
2007-01-12 05:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋