my friend has a bf who she never stops talking to and its like were not even friends anymore cuz even when we do hang out shes always texting him or something. she is just his rebound. and shes gonna get hurt again
2007-01-12 05:14:00 · 9 answers · asked by Hol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems a Rule of Law that women, when they first start a relationship, that they virtually ignore all thier other regular friends in thier initial infatuation with the new person in thier life.
Be her friend, and hopefully she will realize that friends are better many times than a love/lust interest.
2007-01-12 05:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for you to even be thinking like that, it's klind of making me think that you're not that much of a friend anyway. Are you feeling this way because you really love her? Or are you saying this because you're feeling a litte left out? That's the questions you want to ask yourself. Maybe she will get hurt again, but all you can do is mind your own business. People tend to take the truth hard, so if I were you I wouldn't say anything. My ex-best friend was going out with this guy that was no good for her, and when I told her that all he was doing was using her she got pissed off at me and she thought it was jealousy because I didn't have a boyfriend. All I said it was that one time and eventually he ended up doing exactly what I said he would and she got hurt. I was there for her without saying I told you so....be ready to take the blow babe. Friends don't always appreciate your honesty. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-12 13:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest telling youre friend how you feel explain to her theres nothing wrong having a boyfriend and a friend as well but youre sad because u feel like she dosent much care for ya anymore, and maybe suggest she spend seperate time with each of yas with out interfering with the time to spend by doing what shes doing.by all means do not tell heranything bout being a rebound and getting hurt cause you willl loose youre frien
2007-01-12 13:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by amethyst m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the exact same problem with my friend. Like the exact same. The way I fixed it was telling her that I felt kicked to the side and how she is my best friend, then I ignored her for a few days and she got back to normal. Maybe this will work for you.
2007-01-12 13:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by A heart full 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be the best friend that you can,if she should get dumped you will be there to pick up the pieces with her,try and understand her feelings,explain to her that it would be nice for you 2 be cat about girlie things rather than him all the time.
2007-01-12 13:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by plopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask them to please put the phone away when you hang out... you should express that it bothers you that the two of you dont' get any quaility time together..... even just tell them you miss them, that's kinda liek playing the guilt trip but it's true as well..... good luck!
2007-01-12 13:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wanna be mean but let her get hurt by him then she'll realize that he wasn't nothing by herself.....if you keep telling her she will think you jealous
2007-01-12 13:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jeffery'sgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes in love so you juss wait till shes heartbroken again and then get on top of her
2007-01-12 13:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by fly_bo1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him.
2007-01-12 13:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by therernonameleft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋