when is it a good time to move on? been with my so called boyfriend for seven years and it has not progress at all. should i leave until he realize that he has to step it up? he is good to me but i want a full commitment. would anyone stay in a realationship that long if they don't have some feelings for their partner? i know that i have so many questions but i need the right answer.
2007-01-12 05:10:52 · 7 answers · asked by Cowgirl Joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
7 years ? Ouch. I'd say it's about 4 years or so overdue for the 2 of you to sit down and figure out where you want to go with the relationship. In all but name and perhaps kids the two of you seem to be married - might as well make it official or move on.
2007-01-12 05:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him what he feels? Like does he want a commitment or wants to be just friends. My aunt has been with her boyfriend for 9 years and they are still going strong. He has been talking to me about her to see if she still loves him as much if not more than when they first met. The only thing I can say is ask him if he wants to make your relationship further.
2007-01-12 13:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it. Tell him you need to know he is commited to you before you waste anymore of your time with him. Just let him know how your feeling and if he's not willing to step up to keep you, then move on! You can do better!!!
2007-01-12 13:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by amanda_062 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said so yourself, no progress.....relationships were not meant to be just for you to be at a standstill. I can not grasp the concept of staying in any relationship (whether it be significant others, family or friends) if there's no progress. That's just simply not a good relationship.
2007-01-12 13:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is confusing.
you say you don't have feelings for your partner, and need a full commitment.
2007-01-12 13:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard to answer..you did say he was good to u....seven years is alot....if you did leave maybe he would enjoy his space to much and would not want you back..i know alot of people that deal with it...a freind married after 9 years of being with her guy..and they are still together..i know that us women want to have that full committment thing..sh*t I know i do..i mean talk to him let him know that you love him and want to take it to the next level..good luck girl
2007-01-12 13:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think before u decide to break up or stay with him u need to talk with him...
2007-01-12 13:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋