Hello, everybody. I have great news. I found my long lost,
friend. I found her . That is all you need to know. But I was
a little disappointed. Yeah, she has a boyfriend. Reading into
the situation, it doesn't seem like she is too happy, though
with him. She did not seem to have that sparkle, in her eye,
like she does, when she is around me. I am happy, the search
is now over, however. So, where do I go from here ? She is
a lovely young woman, and I really like her. A Saggitarius, with
a passion, for the good life. And who knows, maybe one day
it will happen, for the both of us. I am glad that you guys, helped.
Yahoo Answers, is the best. Period. Out of this world insightful,
bunch of people. So what is next for me ?
2007-01-12 04:53:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Like I said, I found her. And what
better time than now. I will only remain
her friend though, as it is our own,
best interest. May the force be with us.
Do you have anything to say ?
2007-01-12 05:12:49 · update #1
congratulation!!! dont even know the back ground but sounds as if you guys were made for each other, just go with the flow and dont push her, she will come runnig in your arms in no time good luck ;0)
2007-01-12 04:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by claire01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be a really great friend to her. I think you should listen, support her, and most importantly never talk bad about her boyfriend. If she's not happy, eventually she will get rid of the boyfriend and she will appreciate the friend that you have been. This puts you in a great position to move forward with your relationship. In the meanwhile, get out there and meet some other girls. Good luck to you!!!
2007-01-12 05:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by lady_daizee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't jump to the fact that she isn't happy with her current beau. That might be getting your hopes up, even though I'm sure you don't wish the worst for her in that.
You should take it slow, just be her friend. If you just found her after a long time it wouldn't be right to be all over her.
Take it slow, you found her and that was meant to happen, so you never know what will happen next.
2007-01-12 04:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's great news! of course you're dissapointed you didn't get what you had hoped for. but still, be there for your friend through the good times and bad. and say that if things don't work out with her current boyfriend that she is with now in a couple of years, as long as you keep hanging in there, then there would still be a slight chance of you two getting together. but of course there is plenty more fish in the sea. nevertheless, i'm really pleased for you and i wish you well for the future. take care!
2007-01-12 08:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend..if u r so sure that she's the one for u..then u have to give her enough time so that she can really sort out her feelings for u.if her feelings for u are mutual,then it's all good.but if she doesn't want anything more than friendship with u, then u should move on.either ways,she is in relationship with a guy now.do not influence her to break up with her guy.if she loves u,she'll realise it and come to u.if she doesn't,u guys can still be good friends.good luck:)
2007-01-12 05:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it was disappointing
i was in ur shoes once, u know what
look at it in the bright side
its closure for u
let me tell u, i was with a wonderful girl
but i was still in love with the previous girl
i bump into the x gf
and we talked about getting together
but something inside me was telling me she s not worth it
so as time went on i began to realize this girl is not for me
and then there was my closure
no more of my feelings lingering for her
it quickly disappear
and this event help me realize that
good luck man u will be ok
2007-01-12 05:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well done pal if u the same guy i,m thinking about like i said b4 wether or not it was u if u meant 2 be u will be together but never be pushy let nature n love take its course good to hear u happy xx
2007-01-12 05:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by blonde286021 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well done in finding her...if she is unhappy in her relationship she will tell you...be her friend and be there for her when she needs a shoulder...do no steal her from this man....she may just have a few problems, nothing too serious...if she wants you then she will come to you....be patient things may change for the better...you just never know....again congrats in finding her....
2007-01-12 05:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you're in a international fashionable sea coast hotel on the east coast of the U. S......(the position in Florida?) why would you want to bypass to a Burger King to satisfy your soul mate? that is fairly lame.
2016-10-30 22:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. If she's truly unhappy in her relationship, she'll leave when she's ready. Don't push her into a relationship. You just never know!
2007-01-12 04:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋