I have a guy friend, he's very attractive and he is always going out of his way to be with me...Like at church, instead of sitting with all his football buddies and his best friends, he chooses to sit with me. Or when we're in a social setting he calls me over and always wants to be with me. But when asked (by my ex) he said I'm not really his type. So whats this mean?
He also asked one of my good friends out, but she turned him down.
2007-01-12 04:53:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he said I'm not his type, he meant my style. I know that for a fact.
I'm very punk/alternative and he is very prep, lol.
2007-01-12 05:01:44 · update #1
Yes, yes, yes, yes, and yes Brittany...he likes you, you lucky, lucky girl!!!
2007-01-12 04:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He really does like you. As a person. So much so, that he doesn't want to "use" you and then lose you. He's young, and right now, his "type" is the girl he can fool around with, and not be too broken up about when it's done. He's saving you for later, when he's ready to be in a real relationship. Isn't that cool? So hang on, keep sitting next to him in church, etc. Some day, he'll be ready for the right one - you.
2007-01-12 12:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by Vivian D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he might just consider you a really good friend, but then again it's kinda lame if he did consider you a friend, but he does all this for you. Which by the way is soo sweet! Lucky Girl. If you like him, tell him yourself! I mean don't always rely on someone to do things for you, it might end up that they hook up or she lies to you about what he really says. Confront him about it. Good Luck! =)
2007-01-12 13:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Stefy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not have answered your ex honestly (think about the situation from his point of view) from what you say, he definitely likes you but you're going to have to find out how much. If you don't try you might never know.
2007-01-12 12:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Strangeismyname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the guy is a casanova just be careful ' all that glitters are not gold' there is wisdom in that old saying.Having said that there is nothing bad in having a friend but then bad association spoils useful habits so choose yuor associates wisely.
2007-01-12 12:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by avatarking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. i don't know if he wants to date you though. he is comfortable around you. that's good.
do not focus on what he said to your ex. he might have just said that because you two have a prior relationship with the other dude.
at least you're on the good side. he thinks of you in a good way. so just keep going up in his pedestal. can't force him to like you.
2007-01-12 12:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by james b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, im going through the very same thing,
I asked his younger sister and she said he liked me just because he talks about me all the time.
so ask someone who would know already.
2007-01-12 12:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends. it pretty much sound like he likes you if he is alway wanting to hang around with you. Or it may mean that he want to get to you friend through you.
You have to wonder, when you hang out with him, did he ask about your friend or any relating to her? if not, then he does like you. but doesn't want his guy friends, mostly your ex, to know.
2007-01-12 13:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, it did seem like he liked you. The fact that your EX asked him if he liked you obviously he would deny it. That's just for the sake of his ego. But when you said that he asked out one of your good friends, are you sure that he wasn't just using you to get to her?
2007-01-12 12:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When someone says "your not my type" they really mean they are not physically attracted to you.
That is not a nice thing to say though.
I do not think he wants to be more than your friend.
Also, since he said you were not "his type" I would not even bother sitting with him anymore.
2007-01-12 12:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems like hes trying to get close to you for other purposes. He may be feeling you out, he may want some ***, or maybe he just likes you as a "friend." He seems a bit flirty.........watch out.
2007-01-12 12:56:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋