My ex-boyfriend after two years ended our relationship. He wants to be single for a while. But he still comes over and spends the night with me. I love him and he claims he loves me too. At what point do I say I have waited long enough?
2007-01-12 04:51:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enough is enough when you can't take it anymore. If this is not the type of situation you want to be in then you have to make the change for yourself. He is not going to do it because he is getting what he wants. You have to have enough security in yourself to do things for yourself.
Why put up with a situation you don't like. He may love you. But don't lie to yourself if he says he wants to be single then listen to him he knows what he wants.
You can't hold onto something that may not be there. You are his comfort zone and vice verse for you. You both have to be on the same page or do the hard thing and end this. A lot of strength will be needed but you can do it...
2007-01-12 05:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him that you have had enough RIGHT NOW.....it sounds like he is just using you. I am sure he still has some feelings for you after a 2 year relationship, but on the other hand, he did end it, so you need to move on and tell him to do the same......just let him know that he can't have his cake and eat it to. He still wants you to some extent, but he also wants to do what he wants to do when he wants to do it.........Tell him to take a hike........good luck
2007-01-12 04:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's insecure about herself, the inability of self belief will teach in each element of your courting. Any female you seem at, you've slept with. two times. every time someone wonderful walks into the room, you've been observing her boobs, which promptly signifies that you locate hers lacking. it's going to be your pastime to always remind her that she is worth/pleasing/smart/no longer valueless/and so on. And more suitable... a lot more suitable!! are you able to cope with that? if so, bypass for it. If no longer, drop her. it truly is not any longer incorrect to finish that, yet you would inadvertently make stronger the beliefs she had. Your call, dood. i'd've dropped her a looong time in the past. Been there, achieved that, were given the photo album...
2016-10-30 22:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to end the relationship, then END IT. Tell him, sorry, but I don't want a part time relationship. It's all or nothing.
2007-01-12 04:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
End this as soon as you can. Do you want to continue to be used by this jerk? In my book, he isn't good enough to be called a man.
2007-01-12 05:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him OUT! once its over, then its over! If he loves you then he should go back with you, not just go over and spend the night with you, its WASTE your time.
2007-01-12 04:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time to move on hes playing games and i dont think u have the time or energy for that the sooner the better u end it for real this time the better youll feel and meet someone better
2007-01-12 04:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you spend the night with Gonad.
2007-01-13 00:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by gonad_obrien 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg! That happened to me too...He just wants you for your body honey! lolz...Tell him what you think and be frank! Though it may hurt him, he deserves it anyway...He broke up with you in the first place, right? Don't be a bootycall for him :0
2007-01-12 04:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Chicken Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its already over....now hes just using you emotionally as well as physically....this just means he hasnt found any other gurl yet...but the day he does he is gonna dump u and u will be hirt! so to prevent being hurt....self preserve and cut off with him....no nights together!
2007-01-12 04:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by lilbit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋