im in a really good relationship and when he says he loves me i know he means it cause i see it in his eyes but today someone told me that hes cheating on me with someone else but he dousnt believe in cheating do u think i should be worried or am i just being parranoid
2007-01-12 04:16:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if your relationship is as good as you claim, you will talk to him about it before believing it what might be gossip.
2007-01-12 04:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is really all up to you. You have to determine if it's worth being in a relationship with this guy. Do you really believe you're seeing love in his eyes or do you just love him so much that you think he feels the same way. Also just because you love someone it doesn't stop you from being attracted to someone else. Since some guys are really not thinking with the right "head" they do have been known to stray. If you haven't asked him directly yet, maybe you should, and don't be quick to belive everything that comes out of his mouth, because some people have the knact to make you feel they're telling the truth, but don't dismiss everything either, just listen and make your own determination, because if you've been together for a while you know the little things that give him away when he's lying. If it helps have the friend there too so they can explain what they saw. If they refuse then maybe you should question that person as well, because some "friends" say things Just because they want to have something to say. Good Luck!
2007-01-12 12:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by angela r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I would ask you how good is that relationship if you are asking a world wide panel instead of the guy you are in such a "really good" relationship with. I have always been told believe nothing you hear, and only half of what you see. I would also say if it is proved he is truly having an affair then maybe he doesn't know how to love and respect you or that "really good" relationship in a healthy way. Does the someone who told you have anything to gain by telling you that he is cheating? My ex- husband cheated on 5 times...everytime I found out it was because someone told me, I asked him he denied... 6 months down the line his alibi blew up. Talk to him, allow him to hang himself if he is being unfaithful...but don't go by someone else's word alone. But don't be dumb like I was and allow it to happen 5 times!!
2007-01-12 12:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by fleaflopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go with your gut feeling. If you see and feel like he is he probably is. But I must warn you there are many people out there that like to make trouble. Is the person that told you someone you really trust? Now that you are aware just be more cautious and you on your own will notice.
Wish you the best!
2007-01-12 12:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by JAG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is cheating on you. If he denies it, then you have to ask yourself whether or not your source is reliable. If you believe your source you might want to confront him further. If there's a possibility your source is being untruthful then all you can go is have faith in the person you love. Just keep yourself safe by wearing protection.
2007-01-12 12:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by helplessromatic2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to just talk to him about it. Tell him someone told you that he was cheating on you and you want to know if its true. If you can tell that he loves you through his eyes, then you can also tell if he is lying or not when you asked him about it.
2007-01-12 12:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the evidence. Maybe he was just flirting with another girl and to your friend, it seemed excessive.
I wouldn't worry about it. If his behavior suddenly does become erratic (becomes forgetful or is late when you meet him or snaps for no good reason), then you should be suspicious.
2007-01-12 12:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe other people unless you have a reason to believe them. If your boyfriend hasn't given you any room to think he's cheating then don't think it until ha gives you ample reason.
2007-01-12 12:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should ask him because not everything everyone says is true. If you're curious put him to the test and see what happens!
2007-01-12 12:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that person a reliable person and you feel you can trust that piece of information coming from them...if you are like me i would go directly to your boyfriend and ask him but give him the information you were given first...maybe this person who told you this just saw half...maybe he was with a sister or coworker...ASK HIM!!
2007-01-12 12:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋