my bf call and tell me he suspect something because when i am on the phone i keep cuting him off and tell him i will call him back in a few min. i only do that because i have other things like helping my mom and my two hands are full. he thinks i am cheating even though i explain why i cut him off like that. what should i do. i think aslo think somtimes to just brakeup with him...
2007-01-12 04:11:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you break up with him, cheat on him.
2007-01-12 04:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad when the person you care about can't trust you. My bf used to accuse me of cheating also, he used look through my phone and get mad whenever I talked to any of my guy friends. The only thing that I can tell you to do is what I did, I sat him down and talked to him about the situation and told him that if these accusations continue than me and him can no longer be together. A relationship can't work if there is no trust. In some cases ppl who accuse someone of cheating, it tends to mean that they might be cheating as well.
2007-01-12 04:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the concern is a women human beings could forgive yet she on no account forgets as a result she on no account relatively forgives and with that a deterioration of the marriage and injury has been finished and somewhat confusing to repair, and all marriages are in accordance with have confidence and communication as quickly as those are broken all bets are off and that's purely a remember of time till now divorce units in one among these violation of have confidence is slap interior the face to the different social gathering and to that end is normally non forgivable offense the consistent questioning if is he/she seeing somebody leads to paranoia and incessant exams and balances, the different social gathering senses this and the two events are on component, divorce then turns right into a welcome relief relatively as quickly as that happens you ought to understand there have been blunders early on in a relationship and you forgave them that replaced into the 1st mistake which why it leads to cheating cheaters constantly have in them and constantly show the behaviors long till now any long term commitments the concern is the different social gathering normally forgives the different for the failings and signs and indicators in hopes of securing a dedication, this why others ( outsiders ) are greater efficient of recognizing a undesirable individual than the insider in view that they do no longer look to be searching for the dedication and to that end can choose a individual greater efficient. the concern is so hassle-free that many BF/ GF ultimately grow to be marriages ( out of desperation ) whilst they on no account ought to have even been a BF/ GF first of all much less married . divorce is a ought to mandatory correction to the two events so the two can restart and re evaluate what blunders they made in determining on an significant different and dedicate on no account to repeat such blunders
2016-10-07 01:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by esannason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a whiner and probably a Leo who gets pissed off when you won't waste your whole day worshipping him at his feet. He is insecure, childish, and he's going to rag on you every time he thinks he's not got your full attention. Watch out, this kind of jealous moron is exactly the type that ends up smacking his girlfriend around to make himself feel IN CONTROL OF YOU. Dump the loser before he shows his true colors. I get the feeling you already know this, don't you?
2007-01-12 04:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty and TRUST are important in a relationship, since he doesn't have either, DUMP HIM NOW before it is too late. Usually when someone accuses the other of cheating, it is the one who is doing the accusing. Find someone who believes you
2007-01-12 04:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by CJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant understand that you have other responsibilities than him then you really need to get rid of him. Someone like that is going to lead to trouble and put you in a situation that you really dont wnat to be in. Plus his wrongful acusing you of cheating is a form of abuse. If it starts like this where will it end?
2007-01-12 04:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by gibs_neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a teeneage problem. just tell him what the deal is, if he doesnt believe u theres obviously a trust issue.
U know what they say, you only get accused when the other party is guilty of the same thing
2007-01-12 04:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he is a ture bf he wouldnt thank that if he really loves you and if he dosent want to take that you are helping your mom sometimes then you sould just go cuz hes not really a bf if he cant trust u but its all up to you you make the call i guess you go off of how much you love him and or trust him then do wut you thank is right in our eyes
2007-01-12 04:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, it's a long life full of other interesting men.
But, break up with him first and than tell him: I never cheated on you, never thought to, never would. Call me when you grow up
2007-01-12 04:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make 3 peole happy by actually cheating on him.. he deserves it
1. u'r self - u can't blame him for saying the wrong thing
2. your bf - he would be speaking the truth
3. some luck guy - he deserves a cutie like u
2007-01-12 04:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋