like it because he hates crowds and fights but he always gets in a bad mood when we go out i'm realy upset with him should i be?
2007-01-12 04:11:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would
2007-01-12 04:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by xi xi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sure it would be nice if the two of you could spend time together without him spoiling it by getting in a bad mood. My husband doesn't like crowds either and hates to go out. I barely bother anymore.
2007-01-12 04:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something different with him. If he clearly doesn't like clubs and crowds than taking him to those places will only cause conflict.
2007-01-12 04:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by yellowred24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. My guy is the same way and it is very annoying cuz I want to have fun and not babysit to see if he is having a good time or me trying to get him to.He is a loner.Go out with your friends but do not quit totally like i did or you wont be happy and you'll blame him like i do.
2007-01-12 04:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think there is two ways of looking at this, 1) yes you can get upset coz he has to respect your intrests, you enjoy going out and needs to respect that! but 2) you shouldnt really get upset coz you need to resect his feelings too, he doesnt enjoy crouds and stuff
so why dont you come to an agreement and compromise or maybe dont go out so often and when you do go out sit down with him and tell him how much youy enjoy it but you would enjoy it so much more if you knew that just for one night he would just try and enjoy himself for you! if he loves you its a small sacrafice to make.!!!!!
2007-01-12 04:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by angelbum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's not his scene. A lot of guys don't like going to clubs. Ask him what he would rather do. What would he consider fun.
2007-01-12 04:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by 2 cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew when you got together what he was like, going to clubs is clearly not his thing, he doesn't like it. Your problemo.
2007-01-12 04:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has an anger problem or he is on drugs
2007-01-12 04:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course,,
it will piss me off
2007-01-12 04:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋