here is dis guy whom im totally crazy about.....but i cant find out if he loves me or no........he is really funny type nd he ..at times keep staring at me......how do i make him tell me that he loves me and if he doesnt really love me ...how do i make him love me.............????........a lil help please......
2007-01-12 04:01:32 · 8 answers · asked by rita h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first off... you can't make anyone love you. It has to come naturally. And, if you two aren't dating or aren't in a relationship, and haven't talked and gotten to know eachother, it's not very likely that he's in love with you. He may like you, but it's probably not love if you two haven't been around each other much. Just act yourself and if he does in fact have an attraction to you, it'll come out sooner or later. Just be patient and don't freak out.
2007-01-12 04:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Cameron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not make someone love you. Don’t confuse infatuation with love. Love takes time and is a Friendship on fire. You should have no respect for someone that tells you they are in love with you, the first time you meet. If he hasn’t said it, then he doesn’t…at least not yet. Give it some time, talk, communicate, and let nature take it’s course. Don’t be in too much of a hurry, but if after some time; ask where the relationship is going. If it’s not going where you want it to, and then move on.
Just my 2 cents.
2007-01-12 12:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by last_of_the_romantic_men 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girly what's happenin? well actually i've been in love or so i thought twice. i didn't like it cause i'm still young enough to date. but if he does like u there is a simple test u can use to see how much he likes u. it's called the jealousy test. while he's with u go and talk to some other dude ( and flirt don't just go talk ) and see how he reacts if he doesn't act like he cares then he's probably not in love with u. and if he does care then u know he likes u a lot. love is a touch subject that i don't like to get involved with anymore but i mean u usually can tell if someone is in love with you or not. just be patient. i think u should try to get him to love u by laughing at everything he says (if he's trying to be funny) um...what else. see how close he'll let u get to him ( try to give him hugs constantly ) and see how that goes.well good luck in the dating game. later.
2007-01-12 12:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can't make someone love you that's impossible. Ask him if he likes you and would like to go out with you. Seems like he does like you since he's always staring at you. Just ask him out and see what he says.
2007-01-12 12:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not go to him and say the way you always look at me its like that you want something so if you do why not just ask or go to him and ask him out
2007-01-12 12:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make anybody love you just be yourself and hope that that is what he is in love with. you should talk to him and see how he feels about you. since you soubd like you like this guy also.
2007-01-12 12:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by delux191jnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not cleary. But dont you think its too early to ask if he love you or not? Don't you mean that he LIKES you or not. If you know him very well, why dont you ask him if he does. IF you want him, then all you have to filrt him, get his attetnions on you, etc. It works.
2007-01-12 12:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off go see a pshyciatrist,for your obsessive behavior, and if that doesnt work, hire a good lawyer
2007-01-12 12:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by rockstar_livin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋