My ex and I have been broken up and this time for good. I broke up and he tried to get me back, but I wouldn't budge. He was verbally abuse and played mind games, that's why I left. I loved him, but couldn't put up with it anymore. He has a webpage and redesigned it He made sure that he posted a "new girlfriends picture of her with a sweet teddy bear". He never did that for me ever, in fact he always made sure if he did post for me, he would immediately take it down if he got upset with me. Like our pictures together, or something that meant something to me. I just don't know what he gets from going out of his way to hurt me more. Is it Power and an ego boost?
2007-01-12 03:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by inhizmightyhandz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He even went so far as to create a collage of this sweetheart's family. He does that for anyone, but it just hurts alot.
2007-01-12 06:25:15 · update #1
I don't think how his scheme would possibly make me want to run back. If anything I hate him all the more!
2007-01-12 06:27:07 · update #2
BOTH!! He obviously wants you to feel bad, just like he did when he verbally abused you. He's a jerk who has issues, just think of how much better off you are without him!! I know that's easier said than done, but just try. Be thankful you are through with being verbally abused, and start looking for someone nice who knows how to respect a woman :-)
2007-01-12 04:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by darkrose_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex isnt over you just yet it all seems like a fake scheme to make you jelous/hurt nad possibly coem back...
My ex dumped me, so i kinda openly stoped talkn to her for one week right....
Now she posts pix of her kissing girls, of her with her arm around a guy she calls special, and even status updates saying shes finally happy, and she found someone, and shes rlly feelin this new person....
It kills me, im a nice guy, all i wanted was distance to climb over my feelings...
2007-01-12 04:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by zach b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, but stop trying to see what he’s up to. It will not do you any emotional good to dwell on the past. Live, Learn and move on. Obviously, if you are hurt by his actions, then avoid him in all way.
I wish you the best.
2007-01-12 03:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by last_of_the_romantic_men 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are @$$holes...thats why...I hate guys who play games and I hate guys even more who do stuff like what your ex did...its definately all an act to get you jelious...i dont think its an ego or power boost for him...i think its just to hurt you some more...dont let it though...if you dont even react to it...your not letting him win!
2007-01-12 03:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have to make sure you feel worse than they do. It's little consolation to know that the worse they are, the more they're suffering. It's just really hard to sympathize when they're slashing your car tires or whatever.
2007-01-12 04:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a miserable son of a b*t*h; and that's the only way he can make himself feel superior.
2007-01-12 04:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋