Okay ladies you all say yah i wnt a sweetheart, but every single time im an *** to a girl shes desperatley attracted to me...
Can anyone explain, whenever im sweet to a girl i get called cute and nice (and thats it)
When im kinda an *** to her shes allllll over me ahahahha
hell we might even end up dating...
i dnt understand am i crazy?
2007-01-12 03:49:29 · 11 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For example
I gave this girl my jacket once cuz it was cold outside i had been real nice to her before all this regardless... So she takes it and she goes to talk to another group of guys.... ahahha im freezing with out it
so then the same girl I give her a hard time like a week later, i tease her a little call her stupid a few times, then dont talk to her for like 2 weeks....
so outta no where she comes up to me in the middle of the class and says "why dont u talk to me anymore =[, we always used to talk"
WTF
2007-01-12 03:51:06 · update #1
Women typically want to marry the nice guys... they want to get wild with the bad boys... you can still play both roles.. you just have to know when to play the appropriate role!
2007-01-12 03:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Scottee25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol really lol
well.. what can I say?? we all want a sweetheart, of course we do, we have dreamed about this guy for a LONG time, but when we start dating only a few girls will like to stay with the sweet guy; cause at the same time we want a man, that without treating us bad can be a little powerfull, dominant and yes, a little of a heroe we can admire, THE MAN.. if you know what I mean..
what may be too sad sometimes, its that once you have the girls heart, she will take the crap cause "she loves you" until one day hopefully will change her mind.
In my own experience, most of my friends they have dreamed with a nice guy but never seems to last with this guy and stick to the terrible one for longer periods, I dont know if its the passion or the drama they fancy, but, although they are my friends, they are not worthy for girlfriend material with a sweet guy.
good luck nice guy and someday you will meet that special one who will appreciate your niceness..
2007-01-12 11:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by luisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. it really depends on the girl... Like me, I like real sweethearts, I know one at work and wow.. he's so quiet but sweet. On the other hand we also like jerks for some reason... I hate it when I like jerks it bugs the crap outta me, but yeah... Like I guess it depends on the girl, and what she prefers and likes.. You know what?.. Just be yourself, whats worse than attracting the wrong girl.. and then you'd have to go through a phase of a broken heart... and depression....
Personally, I like nice guys, and sometimes i fall for the jerks(a lot of the time)... but you know what, be yourself, dont be something you're not...
I donno if you're into this, but ask God to bring you the right one... its so much better than searching, don't you think?... I am.. I'm waiting and trusting that He'll bring him to me...
Just somethin you can think about
Hope that helps!
Blessings!
2007-01-12 11:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well baby, what can i say, we are girls. Let me give you point of view. I like a sweatheart, but at the same time a guy who's not afraid to hurt my feelings and know how to take control. Maybe other girls feel this way. Girls like to fight. Or atleast I do, but i also like to just lay in a guys arms sometimes. What can I say, girls are crazy, I don't even understand us. :) Mwahh
2007-01-12 11:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teasing is good though I wouldn't call a girl stupid. You got her attention, I would suggest being nice and teasing but not nasty. Give her a reason to be near you. Being an A** isn't going to cut it long term.
2007-01-12 11:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish where they choose to finish. "Bad boys" don't always get who or what they want either, they just tend to complain about it less.
Why do some women go after guys who are 'bad boys'? I would imagine it's with the idea of changing/reforming them.
I know MANY nice guys who are in wonderfully happy relationships...so that disproves that myth right there.
2007-01-12 11:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when you aren't nice girls think you can stand up for them and protect them, when you are a sweetie they think you could be a push over so they are afraid to get too close to you, they are looking to know you can protect them and somewhat manage their life. It's a little prehistorial, but it comes down to finding the mate they feel can provide for them the most.
2007-01-12 11:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jess B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is only because a women does not want a men to be to soft. We like a man that is nice, honest, trusting and caring. however we also want u be able to handle your busy if need be.
2007-01-12 11:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by toobosses4u2fw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls dont like it when guys are mean too them but the really nice guys are looked at as gay and once a girl and you are hanging out be nice but dont be kiss *** nice or that just gets annoying. many girls dont tell guys that they like them because they are shy too......
2007-01-12 11:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are the same but u cant just stop talking to her
2007-01-12 11:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋